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The Conversation: How Black Men and Women 
Can Build Loving, Trusting Relationships 

by Hill Harper

The Conversation Introduction
In his first book for adults, New York Times bestselling author Hill Harper invites you to join the Conversation: an honest dialogue about the breakdown of African-American relationships. For generations African Americans have turned to their families in times of need—but now, this proud and strong legacy is in peril. Black men and women have stopped communicating effectively and it threatens the very relationships and marriages necessary to sustain the Black family. Today, less than a third of Black children are being raised in two-parent households, a sharp decline from past generations. So, why is it so difficult for Black men and women to build long-term, loving and mutually beneficial relationships? What is happening in the community that makes it so hard for women and men to find their way to each other? And why are there so few people who manage to hold a marriage together, even after finding a person to love?

In his moving yet practical book, Hill Harper undertakes a journey both universal and deeply personal in search of answers to these questions. He has conversations with friends and strangers—married, single and divorced—and learns about their private struggles, emotional vulnerabilities, and real concerns, and begins to see common themes emerge. As his journey picks up momentum, Hill begins to recognize his own struggles in other people's stories, and is encouraged to more deeply examine his own relationship issues.

Why did Hill Harper write The Conversation?   
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Why does so much misinformation and mistrust exist between the sexes? Hill addresses the stereotypes that have developed in the Black community, in the hope that by addressing the challenges, Black men and women can find their way to common ground. The Conversation aims to open up the lines of communication, and offers inspiration to those who want to take control of this crisis and start building successful, sustainable relationships. 

ISBN-13: 9781592404759;  ISBN-10: 1592404758;  Buy this book today.

Author Biography
Hill Harper is an accomplished film, television, and stage actor currently starring in the hit CBS drama series CSI: NY. A volunteer for the Big Brothers Big Sisters organization in Los Angeles, he frequently speaks to schools and youth groups. Harper graduated magna cum laude from Brown University with a B.A.; cum laude with a J.D. from Harvard Law School; and earned a masters in public administration from the Kennedy School of Government.




Leading into 2010
by: Jeff Evans 

We stand facing into new opportunity!
2009 has nearly reached its completion. The Winter Solstice has just passed, and each day is successively longer for the next 6 months. The steady lengthening of the day is emblematic of the building energy of the coming year. 2010 beckons on the other side of the holidays. The world around us pauses to shift its focus to celebration, rest, and togetherness.

To some, this shift in energy at year end can feel like a void
Business slows down and in many cases comes to a complete stop. Many unfinished items get put aside until the New Year. This can be the space within a breath for leaders, a time to prepare for the coming year. So, here are a few things for each of us to think about as we prepare to lead into 2010.

Take time to reflect on the positives of the past year
For whatever reason, for many of us, the positive accomplishments of the year tend to vanish behind the problems or things that didn't go as well as we had hoped. The art of leadership requires a practice of going into our past and making sure our positive accomplishments show up like they are on the big screen. Find the positives, talk to others about them, write a song about them, or create a collage on your refrigerator. Leaders are able to immediately go into the past and find inspirational examples of success to use for themselves and for others. Make sure yours are mentally indexed, in Technicolor, and with full surround sound. Then, put them on play and sit back and enjoy the show.

Celebrate your accomplishments
Next, after you have the fully evolved picture of your accomplishments, go out and celebrate them. Make sure your celebration is in keeping with the fullness of your successes. Make it big, active, and vibrant. You worked hard, you deserve it. Now, as a bonus, think about who has made this possible for you. Maybe it is your business partner, your office manager, or your spouse. Whoever it is, they deserve a good fling as well. Take them with you, tell them how much you appreciate them, and make sure that know just how important they are to you. Leaders don't lead long unless they maintain their following.

Put things into perspective
Okay. Work, career, and business are all great. They enable us to do some really wonderful things. Years ago my dear friend Chuck took me to dinner at a beautiful little restaurant in California. We talked business, practice, and theory for a while. He stopped and looked around the room, then said something that has obviously stuck with me for a long time. He said "Remember, the only reason we do any of this work is so that we can do what we are doing now .... sit around the table in a great place and have wonderful conversations." He was (and is) so right. All of this work is to create a better place for us to be as human beings. Remember that all work is more powerful when it serves a higher calling. The most effective leaders keep their sights on a larger aspiration and ensure that everything they do is in line with that.

Select the tone you want to live for the next year
I have recently started to think in terms of the overall tone of a moment. It includes what is happening, the physical events, as well as the feeling of the event. All together, this creates a vibration that we perceive as the overall tone of the moment. I use the events in the past, fully evolved in Technicolor, to understand that tone. I then get choiceful about which tones I want for the future and start living in it. You can put it on like a suit of clothes. Leaders develop this to a fine art. It is larger than trying to act something out, it is pulling that feeling into your cells and into the fiber of your being. Find it, feel it, and live it. Your year will be profoundly impacted by this act of personal leadership.

Be in the moment during this time
Lastly, take the opportunity to enjoy this beautiful time. In years past, I have spent this time in a frenzy to finish the last year and get ready for the next. Later on, I have looked back and wondered what happened to the holidays. This is a profoundly connected and spiritual time of the year. Live in the moment, enjoy it, and love it. This is the ultimate leadership lesson ever. Be your higher self, create a space for a glorious future, and be available for others during this time.

Make 2010 your best ever
My challenge to all of us who choose to lead is simple. Learn to live the steps above. Understand your past and learn from it. Choice your future and create it. Live in the moment fully, being fully available for all of those who choose to follow. These simple steps can serve to make the coming year the best ever, not only for you, but for all those whom you influence. For now, I wish you all a 2010 filled with love, light, and great adventure.

About the Author:
Jeff Evans is an executive coaching consultant with The Gaian Group, an organization dedicated to helping organizations grow and develop through transformational change. Article Source: http://www.ArticleBiz.com; http://jeffevans.info 
 




Intimate Conversation with Gloria Mallette


Join me in welcome bestselling author Gloria Mallette! Nationally acclaimed award winning author GLORIA MALLETTE began her true literary journey by self-publishing her second novel Shades of Jade in April of 2000. By July and 13,000 sold copies later, Gloria signed on with Random House who re-released Shades of Jade in 2001. Shades of Jade made several best sellers lists, including Black Board, Essence Magazine, The Dallas Morning News, and The Washington Post/Washington is Also Reading listing.

Gloria has been featured in The New York Daily News, USAToday, ToDay’s Black Woman, Upscale Magazine, The Dallas Morning News, and The Pocono Record. Gloria also has a featured novella, Come Tomorrow, on the USAToday website. To her credit, Gloria now has ten published titles including the newly released SASSY, a Finalist in the National Best Books 2009 Awards; Weeping Willows Dance; and Living, Breathing Lies, winner of the National Best Books 2007 Awards and the 2008 Indie Excellence Award.


Intimate Conversation with Gloria hosted by Ella Curry of EDC Creations

Q: Introduce us to your new book SASSY.
GM: Finally SASSY! It took a while but SASSY is now available where ever books are sold. Order your autographed copy from the SASSY page, or order from Amazon.com. If not online, please order through your local bookstore. 

Who is Sassy? A successful romance novelist, Sassy Davenport is a woman looking to fulfill her own romantic fantasy. When the man of her dreams steps right out of the pages of her latest novel, Butterfly, Sassy falls madly in love with him. But what evil lies behind Norris Yoshito’s beautiful eyes and sexy smile? Is the man of Sassy’s dream a serial killer of women who made the mistake of trusting him just as Sassy did? When Sassy finds herself caught up in a nightmare of deception and danger, she has to keep her suspicions to herself or fall victim to a heartless killer who sees her death as the ultimate act of revenge

Book Review for Sassy:
"[Sassy] is a fascinating psychological drama...." Harriet Klausner, #1 Amazon Reviewer 
"This is a thriller that I couldn't put down...I read it within 24 hours...a must read." --- B. Davis 'crazy about books.' 


Q: Tell us a little about your main characters. 
GM: The main characters in SASSY are Sassy Davenport and Norris Yoshito. Sassy is a romance novelist who has yet to find the man of her romantic dreams. That is until Norris Yoshito, an architect of Japanese and African American decent, by chance, attends one of Sassy's book signings and purchases ten copies of her latest novel---which impresses her.

The attraction between Sassy and Norris is immediate. Norris is the embodiment of the leading man in Sassy's novel, but Sassy quickly learns that Norris is a man of great compassion and substance when he helps her take care of her cousin Bernard who is dying of AIDS. However, there appears to be a darker side to Norris that frightens Sassy. Women associated with Norris are being murdered and the police believe Norris is the killer. Not knowing what to believe, Sassy fears that she might have to fight the man she loves in order to save her own life.

Q: Who was your favorite? Why?
GM: While I liked Sassy's strength and tenacity, I fell in love with Norris. I liked that Norris was caring, loving, and strong. Norris didn't shy away from Bernard's illness; nor did he back down from Sassy whenever she tried to get the upper hand; nor did he fear his older brother Clarence who had hated him all of his life. Norris was indeed the man that most women dream about being in love with.


Q: What issue, person or thing inspired you to write this story?
GM: Actually, my character, Norris, inspired me to write this book. Strange as it might seem, I kept dreaming about this Afro-Asian man who marries an African-American woman who faces head on the problems they were up against because of his past. My dreams evolved into SASSY.


Q: What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book?
GM: One of the issues I addressed in SASSY was AIDS and the other mixed race children in Japan who are technically outcasts in a very purist, racist society. Even today, Japanese people as a whole do not condone the mixing or tainting of their blood by foreigners, especially people of African decent. I even learned that bleaching cream is very big in Asia because Japanese people believe the whiter their skin the better. I had to do a lot of research and it was no surprise that women who bore mixed race children were ostracized. Big surprise---not.



Q: What was your primary quest in publishing this book?

GM: My primary quest in publishing SASSY was to do it my way. My previous publisher wanted me to add a lot of sex to my books, but sex is not what I write. If a sex scene is called for, that's fine, but to write sex to drive the story, that's not me. I write what my characters lead me to write, not what I think will sell more books.


Q: Thousands of books are published each year. What sets your book apart from other books in your genre? 
GM: That's just it, publishers have never been able to pigeonhole me. I don't write in a particular genre which is what sets my books apart from other books. I love mystery, suspense, and romance. Combining the three seem to work perfectly for me, which is why readers tell me they can't stop reading until the very last page. 


Q: What was the most powerful chapter or scene in the book for you?
GM: There were several powerful scenes in SASSY that touched me. One in particular was when Bernard, who is dying of AIDS, gets to see his seven-year-old son Brice. Bernard had been afraid that he would scare Brice by his emaciated appearance and tried to end all contact with Brice and Brice's mother Evelyn. When Brice was brought to the house, it was Brice who embraced Bernard and said he would take care of him. I actually cried when I wrote this scene.


Q: If you had to do it all over again, would you change anything in your latest book?
GM: Interestingly, there is nothing in the content of the SASSY that I would change, it would be the copyeditor who didn't do such a great job. 


Q: Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases. 
GM: SASSY placed as a finalist in the National Best Book 2009 Awards. I feel fortunate that it has been acknowledged, just as Living, Breathing Lies was in 2007 and 2008 wherein it won a National Best Book Awards and an Indie Excellence Award. As a self-publisher who has been mainstream published, a little validation goes a long way.

I'd like to extend an invitation to readers to visit my website: www.gloriamallette.com  to see the videos for both Sassy and Living, Breathing Lies. Books ordered through my website are personally autographed. 
Writing remains my passion. I am now hard at work on my next book, Shh! Don’t Tell which will be out in 2011. 

Sassy by Gloria A. Mallette
ISBN-10: 0967878934 | ISBN-13: 9780967878935

Purchase your copy today from Barnes and Noble or by visiting Gloria's website for a signed copy.


Follow Author Gloria Mallette
Email: gempress@aol.com  
Website: www.gloriamallette.com  
Blog: http://blog.myspace.com/gloriamallette

National Best Book 2009 Awards Finalist -- Sassy
National Indie Excellence 2008 Award Winner -- Living, Breathing Lies
National Best Book 2007 Awards Winner AA Fiction -- Living, Breathing Lies
MosaicBooks.com 2007 Bestseller -- Living, Breathing Lies

 




Advice from the Top: What Minority Women 
Say About Their Career Success

by author Valencia Campbell

Join me in welcoming author Valencia Campbell to Black Pearls. Valencia is a consultant on educational topics and women’s issues Her completed projects include those for the Baltimore Public School System, National Science Foundation, National Congress of Black Women and the National Council of Negro Women. She has taught sociology courses at Howard University and Bowie State University. Her many awards include: Governor’s Citation for Work on the Improvement of the Status of Women, Woman of the Year for Southern Prince George’s Business and Professional Women, WHUR Hometown Hero Award, 9to5 National Association of Working Women Awards and a Presidential Appointment to the United Service Organization World Board of Governors from 2006-2008. Valencia holds a Ph.D. and M.A. degree in Sociology from Howard University and B.A. in Sociology from Virginia State University. 

Intimate Conversation with author Valencia Campbell, hosted by Ella Curry of EDC Creations


»Ella: Introduce us to the primary message in your book, Advice from the Top.
One of the key messages in my book relates to how the minority women define success. A common theme was the idea of setting your own goals and achieving them. Nearly all of the women did not equate money with success despite the fact that they all had achieved considerable financial wealth.


»Ella: What lead you to create Advice from the Top now?
I wrote this book to help minority women realize their career dreams. Often we minority women are confronted with race and gender barriers that impact our career aspirations. By learning from the career experiences of other women, we can move ahead at a faster pace. I include specific tips that will help women overcome some of the barriers as well. 


»Ella: What impact will Advice from the Top have on the community?
I think my book will inspire women to set their career goals high. Chapter Three for example, shares the amazing stories of millionaire business owners like Cathy Hughes and Eunice Dudley. Also, former Prince George's School Superintendent Iris Metts is included. News anchor Andrea Roane and medical doctor, Beatrice Muglia, among others are included too. Readers will see how the women's family, mentors, professional networks, and personal drive propelled them to success. These women's stories will leave a lasting legacy for those who want to improve the status of women in our society. 

Advice from the Top offers tips and advice to minority women and others wondering what it takes to succeed in careers in both the for-profit and non-profit worlds. To gain the insights, Valencia Campbell reviewed research on career success. Then she interviewed fourteen extraordinary minority women, all of whom shared stories about the path to the top of their fields. But this book goes beyond the usual superficial profile of women achievers. Rather, it shares their views on what constitutes success, the factors they consider important to their success, the obstacles they encountered and overcame, and what women can do today to get ahead.

Advice from the Top will inspire minority women who want to advance their careers. The compelling stories described in this book will, further, help them avoid common pitfalls on the road to success. Better, it provides action steps designed to help readers vault the same hurdles with aplomb. Advice from the Top will also help organizations, educational institutions, and business organizations develop and support career and mentoring programs that promote the success of minority women.


»Ella: Is there a defining message that you want readers to grasp and share?
It's so important to me for my readers to start sharing their own stories of success whether it is in a news article, magazine article or their very own book. It is important that minority women across a wide range of occupational fields share their stories. 


»Ella: Before we end the interview, define SUCCESS. What part does GRATITUDE play in achieving success, in your opinion?
Like the women I interviewed, I believe that success is achieving goals that you set for yourself. You should not let others define success for you. When we receive support from our families, mentors, professional and or social networks, we can show our gratitude by helping someone else realize their career dreams. 

»Website: www.advicefromtopwomen.com ; Email: valenciacampbell2003@yahoo.com  

Order from Amazon
ISBN-10: 0313358583 | ISBN-13: 978-0313358586



Intimate Conversation with Saundra E. Harris

Former two-term Vice President of the Black Writers Guild of Maryland, Saundra E. Harris, is the author of THE PARTY, which received the Romantic Times Magazine BOOKreview 2005 Reviewer’s Choice Award for Best African American Romance by a First Time Novelist. Ms. Harris recently completed her long awaited sequel to her first novel THE AFTER PARTY which is also receiving rave reviews.

She holds a Bachelors degree in Business Management and plans to pursue a Masters. Additionally, she is the President of SHE Media Group the parent company whose holdings include Saphari Books, Inc., an independent small press, and WSER Sassy Entertainment Radio™, a weekly internet radio show, focusing on bridging the communication gap between the sexes. Currently she is at work on her third and fourth novels, due to be released in 2010 and 2011, respectively. 


Tell us about your passion for writing.

SEH: I never knew how cathartic writing was until I was dared to actually write my stories that I told on paper. I was going through a bad relationship and an even worse breakup and it was so healing to be able to write down what happened. I was not only able to see his issue, but my own as well and my contribution to the demise of the relationship. Now I cannot go a day without writing something. Whether it’s an entry in my blog, or a thread topic on my Twitter or Face Book pages, or even an answer to a thread, I have to get my opinions out and my thoughts on paper. 

My main motivation for writing are men and sex, the very thought of the two stimulate my senses and gives me an awareness of life. It may sound strange, but the inner workings of relationships intrigue me, and the more I see women in miserable situations [sometimes of their own choosing] it inspires me to write more. I want to empower women with the knowledge that being single is not a dirty word and that your true friends will help you through all trials and tribulations.

Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... 
SEH: My writing is inspirational and I want to show future readers a true understanding of what it means to be a friend. I also want to leave the legacy to my family of the importance of writing and how diverse and talented the family is. It is my hope to jumpstart their imagination into a new world and a new realm of creativity.

Introduce us to your book The After Party
SEH: THE AFTER PARTY: Shaeyla, Benét, Kendra, Diandra, and Worthy have been friends for years, and are known as “the party girls”, but what happens when the party spirals out of control testing their sisterhood as well as their relationships? 

Shaeyla Andrews the preeminent event planner in the Mid- Atlantic region is roped into hosting yet another party celebrating love and life centered on her girls. Benet and Worthy barely survived the last party, while Kendra and Diandra found love and Shaeyla remained torn between two men. The After Party invites you back into the lives of five dynamic and sexy ladies… It’s a new year and the ladies have finally learned their lesson…or have they?

What Inspired You To Write This Story?
SEH: This story is actually the sequel to the first book THE PARTY, yet it has been so long between books that I wanted the readers to be able to read THE AFTER PARTY and still understand the storyline. I was inspired to write both books because of my own relationship and how I dealt with it at the time. I also noticed that women in my life were turning a blind eye to the odd habit forming vices – i.e. gambling, womanizing, alcoholism, and drug addiction, and to me they had sold their souls just to say they had a man AND they no longer had their girlfriends. I noticed that they only called on their friends when times were hard, but when times were good, they pushed their friends away. So that was another key aspect for writing the book. I wanted to show how true friendship and sistergirl’s related and how they acted with each other, that they could say anything they wanted without rancor and that it was an understanding between the ladies that we say things out of love and not hate. As a side bar, my girlfriends and I are known as “the party girls”.

What Issues In Today’s Society Have You Addressed In the Book?
SEH: I have addressed the issue of friendship; true and real friendship between women. Society tells women that we cannot be friends, and that we have to be leery of each other around our men and since that is not my point of reference, I wanted to write about women like me. Women who have friends that have lasted through all the ups and downs in life for more than thirty years, the type of women who try to cheer you up when you are down or give you a shoulder to cry on when your sad, or even the type that say “I told you so”. That is the type of woman that I am and that is the type of female sistergirl friends that I surround myself with. 

How Difficult Was It to Complete The Novel?
SEH: This novel was actually completed in 2003 when I finished my first novel, but I was not satisfied with it, so I sat it on the shelf. I did not revisit the manuscript again until 2007 and after a year and half of rewrites and edits; the story came together to the point that I was excited and in love with my characters again. So there was a six year hiatus between my first novel THE PARTY and the sequel THE AFTER PARTY. What I don’t think people understand is that you have to have a passion for your art and I can only write what I would want to read as a reader. I am an incurable romantic and despite the drama in my books I always want them to have a happy ending. So choosing to write a dramatic romance was easy, because my favorite author’s are romance writers, such as Brenda Jackson and Rochele Alers.

Share with us your latest news, awards, or upcoming book releases?
SEH: My alter-ego SassyScribe will be publishing her very first novel. It is a non-fiction book entitled SITUATIONS with SASSY which discusses dating, love, sex, and relationships, and is currently in the editing stages, with a release date set for Feb 2011. For 2012, I hope to have two more novels completed - SUMMERS OFF and DELIVERANCE AME are both in rough manuscript form and deals with marriage and infidelity and the church respectively and will make for great summer reading.

Follow Saundra aka SassyScribe Online
www.blogtalkradio.com/sassyentertainment   
www.sapharibooks.com  
www.myspace.com/sassyscribe  
www.xcapadesofthegirlz.blogspot.com   
www.asksassyscribe.blogspot.com 



Intimate Conversation with Nikkea Smithers

Nikkea Smithers is a spoken word artists and Essence Magazine Best Selling Author She has performed on stages in front of thousands. Her literary work often speaks to issues in the community that are often under-discussed. Her readers have fallen in love with her ‘tell it like it is’ approach to writing making her readers lifelong fans. 


Black Pearls Magazine Interview hosted by Ella Curry, CEO of EDC Creations

Ella: Hello Nikkea! Introduce us to your book, On The Flip Side.

Nikkea: On The Flip Side deals with a situation that many men face but little light is shed on. We often hear the story about the single mother doing it for her kids on a daily basis. While I would never want to take anything away from them, what we don't often hear about is the single father who is standing up to his responsibilities and being burdened with social issues beyond his realm of control. What if the mother is not the one holding it down? What if the father has the kids but the mother has the greed? On The Flip Side deals with a different kind of baby momma drama and show that real men are fathers and not just baby daddies. 


Ella: Tell us a little about your main characters. Who was your favorite? Why?
Nikkea: Tavares was on the path to be a very successful young man. A one night stand turns his life up side down and he finds himself in a position where he has to be accountable. As he struggles to be a respectable father the mother of his children does everything in her power to break him down. The twist to this tale is he just isn't just a single father, he is also paying child support as if his kids don't live with him and in two different states. 

Danica is a very interesting woman with a serious God complex. She truly believes that she is better than everyone around her. Not only does her complex cause her to throw stereotypes around like they are going out of style but it causes her to play the role of karma. The problem with playing karma is that it's bound to come back on you if you aren't living right. 

My favorite is Tavares because he is the epitome of real man. He immediately steps up to the plate and makes things happen. As you read the book you genuinely feel for him. His kids come first, plain and simple. Who doesn't love a man like that?


Ella: Are your characters from the portrayal of real people? What inspired you to write this story?
Nikkea: The characters aren't based on real people but are influenced by conversations. I love talking to people and my husband and I often throw these parties where there are debates on different topics. Of course one of the most popular topics of debate is child support. The men thought they paid too much. The women thought it wasn't enough. One man talked about how he was paying support in both NY and VA. He talked about how neither state would take into consideration the order in the other state. This blew my mind! My mother was even present and shared her views on the subject which opened my eyes even more. I see story lines in the strangest of things so I thought, what if was the other way around? What if the man had his kids and was still paying child support? So I wrote the poem On The Flip Side and was surprised at the response it got from men that were going through this very thing. Then a friend of mine and I were talking after she saw me perform the poem and was telling me about a friend of hers going through this only his child's mother left the kids at the hospital after birth! I immediately thought oh this needs to be a book! I then took the poem and turned it into this book.


Ella: What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book?
Nikkea: Child support is the obvious issue addressed in the book but there are several subliminal messages. I love dealing with subliminal messages and try my best to place a few in every novel I write. One issue is accountability. Society is really hard on women in regards to promiscuity but men don't always get the same scrutiny. I want to show young men that they have to be responsible for their actions as well. That one night of passion could mean kids with a woman you don't know or worse, a death sentence of H.I.V. Another issue that is addressed is karma. We really need to understand that what we throw out into the universe will come back to us pressed down, shaken together and running over.


Ella: What was your primary quest in publishing this book?
Nikkea: I love to break down barriers and talk about things that no one is talking about. At least not in this sense. I wanted the roles to be reversed and stretch my imagination. Especially with Danica's character, I had to dig deep for her because she is so far from me and what I would naturally do. I wanted this book to be true to the characters and show them for who they are regardless of the outcome. I love being able to uplift my brothers and say kudos to those doing the right things. Through Tavares I get to connect with readers and share with them the story of a good man. 


Ella: What sets your book apart from other books in your genre? 
Nikkea: It's all about the message. My work is educational but entertaining. I want to enlighten people. I want them to finish one of my books thinking about the subject matter and want to take action. How can we change things if we don't start by talking about them? I actively strive to write away from what's popular and get to the bottom of social issues that need to be addressed.


Ella: What do you like to do when you're not writing? 
Nikkea: When I'm not writing I love to read! I'm the biggest book worm. My husband and I joke that our house looks like the Library of Congress. I don't discriminate. I have poetry from Langston Hughes to Nikki Giovanni. I have nonfiction from George Jackson to Steve Harvey. I have fiction from John Gresham to E. Lynn Harris. With me being a self published author I am also a huge supporter of self published authors because I understand their grind. I also enjoy culture. I love museums, art viewings, jazz clubs, and poetry readings. I love the movies too! 


Ella: What does your family think of your writing? 
Nikkea: My family is very supportive. My husband has a prized collection of all of my books in his 'man room' that he shows off to all his friends. He gets the first copy in every edition of all of my works. When he sees something has discouraged me he tells me to shake it off and keep doing what I do. My mother buys my books in bulk like she doesn't know me! They are my two biggest supporters. I appreciate being surrounded by positivist and they keep me inspired to keep on writing.


Ella: What is the best piece of advice you would give to an aspiring author?
Nikkea: Do your research, stay positive and value the message over all else.


Ella: Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases. 
Nikkea: I was excited to find out that two of my books (Keith's Story and Attitudes of a Woman) were awarded with the Literary Hallmark & Legends Top Books 2009 award by your Magazine. That honor was one of the highlights of my year! Within the next year I have three more books that will be released. I also look forward to touring and performing. I want to dedicate my time in the new year connecting with my readers. Book clubs who select my book as their book of the month can reach out to me so that I can make plans to either be present or available for a teleconference. Email: info@nikkeasmithers.com ;  Website: www.nikkeasmithers.com   

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15 Ways to Communicate Effectively with Your Spouse

 
1. Listen attentively while your spouse is speaking, rather than concentrating on what you are going to say in response. This way, you can hear what your spouse is really saying. You may be also able to hear what your spouse is not saying, as well as what he is.

2. Learn to speak the same things (for example, you want to live debt free or have a happy, fulfilling marriage). If you are speaking the same things, you are in agreement. The scriptures ask, “Can two walk together unless they are in agreement?” The answer is no. Therefore, agreement is very important in a marriage.

3. Make eye-to-eye contact when you are speaking. Eyes will reveal anger, pain, sickness, and so on. Eye-to-eye contact also creates a connection between you and your spouse.

4. Think before you speak, thereby giving yourself time to speak your words with love. People are easily offended. Once anger or offense enters the conversation, the person who is offended stops listening and goes on the defensive. So think carefully before you speak.

5. Pray together. Again, this brings agreement, but more importantly, brings God into the conversation.

6. Dream together and write a vision. Understanding the purpose for your marriage should drive you and your spouse to accomplish God’s will for your life. Whether His reason is for you to raise your children a certain way, to start a business, to start a non-profit organization, to start a prayer meeting in your community, or to sing, every couple has a purpose.

7. Know your spouse and why she does what she does (for example, is it based on her upbringing? military background? being from a single-parent home? growing up poor?). Knowing this will help you to communicate more effectively. For example, if your spouse grew up poor, then you can understand why she responds a certain way when you spend a lot of money. Because of your spouse’s past, she might be used to people telling her to not spend as much or feelings of poverty may rear their ugly head.

8. Communicate with your spouse—he is not a mind reader. You must communicate your wants and desires.

9. Know what your spouse expects from you (such as dinner every night, or a phone call to let her know you are okay). You have been with your spouse long enough to know what she expects.

10. Understand what your mate is trying to say. Men are definitely from Mars and women are different from Venus. We can speak the same things, but in different ways. Understanding your spouse’s background and gender, and knowing his heart, will help you to decipher what he is really trying to say. For example, your spouse may have a hard time expressing love verbally but may be able to express it physically, giving you hugs or kisses that say, “I love you.”

11. Forgive one another. Every marriage, including yours, will get to a point at which your spouse will do something to hurt you. At the end of that day, make up in your mind to forgive your spouse. If you don’t, that unforgiveness will grow day by day until your heart is hardened or your ears get dull and you no longer want to hear what he has to say. Those are walls that start the separation process. Don’t let that happen. Forgive and move on. God says that He gives us new mercies every day; therefore, because He has given freely, you should give freely, too.

12. Complement and say “I love you” and “I appreciate you” often. By doing this every day, this is something that can keep a marriage peaceful and strong.

13. Know the best time to talk with your mate. If your spouse is not a morning person, 7 AM is not the best time to have a serious conversation. If your spouse needs an hour after work to relax, wait to have that heart-to-heart.

14. Conduct family meetings regularly. This allows you to discuss what’s going on with the child(ren), plan dates and vacations, agree about large purchases, and other important matters.

15.  Control your emotions. Keep your mouth shut! DO NOT discuss issues when either of you is upset. If your spouse is trying to discuss a matter while angry, find a way to let her cool off first. For example, excuse yourself to the bathroom and go pray. If you are the one who is upset, definitely pray first and wait until you are able to speak nicely. 
 
© Jewell R. Powell, the Marriage Coach and author of Marriage 101: Building a Life Together by Faith. For more information, visit www.marriage101.us  



7 STEPS TO FINANCIAL FREEDOM

 What is financial freedom? More than just a dollar amount on your paycheck, financial freedom is a state of mind. It’s the comfort of knowing you’re debt-free. Getting started with eliminating debt is easier than you think. If you follow these seven simple steps, you’ll be on your way.  

1. Change the way you look at money – renew your mind!
We tend to think of money as the enemy, a scapegoat for all of our financial woes. Learn to look at money as a means to living comfortably, not the cause of your struggles. Ultimately, we are the ones who decide where our money goes. It’s not like dollar bills sprout legs and go buy a new TV, right? Money discussions can be uncomfortable for many married couples, but talking is an important first step. A good book on this is “Secrets of the Millionaire Mind” by T. Harv Eker 
or “Rich Dad, Poor Dad” by Robert Kiyosaki.  

2. Get out of debt – owe no man anything!
Living with debt is more than a financial drain and mounting interest. It’s also constant worrying over whether you can pay your bills. Here’s the most effective (and simple) way to tackle your debt:  

Start by paying off the credit card with highest interest rate. Set some specific goals here. How much extra can you pay each month? Always make more than the minimum payment. Once that card has been paid off, start working on the bill with the next highest interest. Throughout this process, you should be paying the minimum on all of the credit card bills you have. Check out this free e-course on getting out of debt ( http://www.youneedabudget.com/index.php#order ).  

3. Don’t create any more debt – be a wise steward!
Now that you credit card balance is down to zero, you want to keep it that way. To remain debt-free, all you have to do is spend less than you take in. Easier said than done? Maybe. This is another opportunity to have a good heart-to-heart talk with your spouse about both of your spending habits.  

Some people recommend cutting up all your credit cards. However, keeping one credit card as a safety net in case of emergency is perfectly fine. Keep only one card, take it out of your wallet, and put it some place less accessible – such as your family’s fire safe. The time it takes to get out the card will serve as a “cooling off” period.  

4. Create a budget – count the cost!
Budget can be an unpleasant word – like ‘diet’. But don’t think of it as depriving yourselves – think of it as investing in yourselves. Which sounds better: one dinner at your favorite steak house or going to be every night knowing you’re debt-free? Think of your budget as an opportunity to cast a vision together as a couple. What’s important to both of you? Your spending should reflect your values, what you hold most dear in your heart. Here’s a simple software program you can use for creating and keeping your budget together ( http://www.youneedabudget.com/index.php#order ).  

5. See where it goes – make a list and check it twice!
For an entire month, track everything you both spend money on – down to the last penny. Evaluate whether you are prone to making impulse purchases. Also, look at whether advance planning will help. For instance, plan your meals at least a week in advance. Multiple trips to the grocery store mean multiple opportunities for impulse purchases.

 6. Start saving – plan for the future!
Build yourselves a nice cushion of cash. After you’ve lowered your debt and begun living on a budget, you should money to put into a savings account each month. When an emergency arises, you’ll have cash to cover the expenses – no need to borrow money or use a credit card.  

Seek wise counsel about different kinds of accounts you can use to save money tax-free. For example, you can contribute to a 401(k) and steadily build a nice nest egg – and the difference in your net paycheck is so small you might not even notice it.  

You’re not limited to stocks, bonds, and savings accounts, either. There are a lot of pretty creative ways to save money that you might not have considered before. Check out www.liveoutloud.com for some great ideas.  

7. Get insurance – get yourself into good hands!
If you don’t both have enough health insurance, one accident or illness could devastate you financially. Even if you have insurance through work, evaluate whether it’s enough to prevent a financial crisis. Consider getting supplemental insurance if you believe you’re underinsured. Also, don’t overlook disability insurance. Should you find yourself unable to work, debt is guaranteed to mount. You might think extra insurance is too expensive – but you’re wrong! For most young adults, life insurance and disability insurance cost less than a dollar a day. You’ll never know unless you ask – so call around and start learning about your options.  

Small changes add up quickly. Don’t let bad money habits wreck your marriage. You’ve got to both be committed to this goal if you’re going to make it happen. Financial freedom is closer than you think. Don’t wait a minute longer to achieve your dream – start on these seven steps today!  

© Jewell R. Powell, the Marriage Coach and author of Marriage 101: Building a Life Together by Faith. For more information, visit www.marriage101.us


Intimate Conversation with the Literary Sistahs 

Literary Sistahs National Book Tour Group featuring the authors Donneil D. Jackson, T. Nicole Robinson, Tamika Newhouse, S. Dodson, and Ni'cola Mitchell.


Literary Sistahs Authors Tour
A group created by Best Selling Author Tamika Newhouse, Literary Sistahs is a national tour group of black authors touring the nation to bring a new literary experience. These are women who have toured all over the nation, gained a best seller’s status, operate their own publishing companies, and together they will collaborate to bring events you will always remember. 

The purpose of the Book Tours is to meet many avid readers all at once, bringing them fun and exciting book signings with activities. You get the fulfillment of getting your books signed by more then one prominent author that has many stories to tell. We are passionate about our work, our readers and fans, and making it to see them for a more personal meeting. These book tours will not only entice you, you will not want to miss them coming into your city.
Email: literarysistahs@gmail.com 

Readers get ready for laughter, hugs and smiles, good books, and a personal conversation with today's most passionate writers. Visit us:  www.literarysistahs.com  and  www.twitter.com/literarysistahs 



African American On the Move Bookclub
AAMBC is a award nominating literary group of African American women and men. Each week members from all over the country discuss and read novels by independent writers. They monthly Books from Independent Authors, Weekly Radio Shows, Thousands of members, and the vision to push African American writers to the top. 
Become a supporter of AAMBC's mission which is to highlight our African American authors to the fullest. Connect with us on many networks and get started with our book of the month today. Visit the website: www.aambookclub.com  


Follow AAMBC on the web: 
www.aambcbooktours.blogspot.com   
www.twitter.com/aambookclub  
www.myspace.com/aambc2008 

 


         Tamika Newhouse author The Ultimate Moment No Regrets

Tamika Newhouse is the award-winning best selling author of The Ultimate NO NO and The Ultimate Moment No Regrets. Currently she is the Founder of an online organization for black authors called AAMBC and the CEO of Delphine Publications. You can currently hear her on AAMBC Radio and see her on tour with Literary Sistah’s. She resides in San Antonio with her husband and two children. 

Ella: The Ultimate Moment No Regrets Introduction
The Ultimate Moment No Regrets is the follow-up to the best selling novel The Ultimate NO NO. In a continuance quest for true happiness Jazzaray, Nitrah Charmaine, and Dahlia will face yet more trials before they can reach the end of the tunnel. As everyone tries to grow and forget about the lies that transpired more deception surfaces making them question their relationships. More deceit, more heartache, and more deceiving as theses women face one of their hardest task in life, finding true love. You’re discovered what their ultimate no no was but now can you handle their ultimate moments. 

Ella: Are your characters from the portrayal of real people?
In retrospect a person writes from what they know. I want my novels to come off as relatable and realistic story line. So to achieve that I use sources from people I know; such as family, friends, old class mates, former boyfriends, and even some enemies. It’s all a process of writing people that your readers can relate to.

Ella: What inspired you to write this story?
The Ultimate Moment No Regrets is the sequel to my debut novel The Ultimate NO NO. I wrote the sequel because when I wrote the first book almost three years ago I was an amateur. I did not know anything about the industry and I wrote for pure entertainment. I had ended the novel abruptly on purpose and when I finally took writing seriously I knew I had to write part two. So after three years I sat down and wrote The Ultimate Moment No Regrets and the drama just spilled all over the pages. My journey to becoming a published author is a faith filled one. Everything I started off to do I believe was a blessing, none of this was my planned destiny.

Ella: What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book?
I have addressed a lot of things from welfare, food stamps, projects, housing assistance, and the dark verses light skin. A lot of stereotypes are run through our culture and I made my main character a dark skinned woman because I wanted to get rid of their stereotype. Most books I read, the main character is always a brown bombshell. I needed to step outside the box and show you that we all have different shades. I am a dark sista and I love my dark skin. I have never wanted to be bright, never wanted to be a stick figure and I have loved every part of who I am. When reading a character that looks like you or someone you love it makes the story all so real. That’s who we are, real people. 

Ella: What is your most valuable lesson about the publishing industry?
I learned that this isn’t a competition. I never started out as an author who wanted to beat other authors in a game of who can sale the most. To me that defeats the purpose of writing and the art of it. Staying humble is what can keep you asleep at night. When I get fan mail, I get overly excited. Because if just that one person reads it and says they loved it and go into detail about it, I feel like I just earned several thousand bucks. Although that feeling isn’t in forms of dollars the benefit is very fruitful. I love being able to do this. What else would I do to talk everyone to death? 

Ella: What did you hope to accomplish by writing this particular story?
With each story I write it’s a new task. With this one I started off as doubting myself. Because I was now in the industry this would be the first book I wrote knowing that other people were going to read it. I had to nip that in the butt quick and get on the grind of writing another best seller. With each story line I want there to be a lessoned learned. I always have these hidden messages in which I think their not so hidden because my readers catch on very quickly. Its all apart of life and with life comes heartache and triumph. So will I ever write a fantasy or a perfect character? I probably want because who in life is perfect? Remembering that I want my stories to be relatable defeats the idea of writing a perfect character. 

Ella: Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases.
In 2009 I was awarded the women of the year award by Alive Magazine. I was also nominated for several awards such as Radio Personality of the Year and Self Published Author of the Year by African American literary Awards. I have been featured in several magazines such as Ujima magazine, San Antonio Black News, Dallas Black, Dallas Morning News, Alive Magazine, and Step Up Sista. I have also been on various BTR shows, KAZI Radio, Artist First Radio, and from cover to cover radio show. I am currently hosting my own show on BTR called AAMBC Radio, a literary consultant, book marketer, and founder of Delphine Publications. I plan to do a lot more as I grow in this industry. I love every part of it bad and good.

Book Sellers: Ingram/Baker and Taylor
Book Store: The Literary Joint in Forestville, Maryland
Website: www.TamikaNewhouse.com  
Blog: www.tamikanews.wordpress.com 
Fan Club: www.tamikafanclub.ning.com  
Publisher: www.delphinepublications.com  




                          
T. Nicole author of My Own Terms

T. Nicole has always had a love for writing. As a young child she could be found in her room writing anything from poetry to short stories and graphic novels. Her love for the written word has continued to grow and she now has decided to share her projects with the world.

My Own Terms has been said to be "happening and fresh", giving the reader a good blend of action, suspense and romance. This novel takes your typical girl done wrong story and intertwines scenarios that leave the reader wanting more. Three thousand miles isn't far enough for Shana, the main character, to escape the life she once loved. How will she get away and move on?


Intimate Conversation with Ella Curry of EDC Creations

Ella: T. Nicole, are your characters from the portrayal of real people?

All the characters in My Own Terms have personality traits of people that I have come in contact with in my life at some time or another.

Ella: What inspired you to write this story?
Inspiration for this story came in many different forms. Life experiences from myself and those of friends and family contributed to the story line. The story just about wrote itself.

Ella:  What is your most valuable lesson about the publishing industry?
The most valuable lesson I have learned in this industry is to educate yourself as much as possible. The more educated you are about the publishing industry, the less likely you will be taken advantage of. Always do your research!

Ella:  What makes a successful writer?
Three things that make a successful author, in my opinion, are: Confidence in their work; Knowledge of the business, whether you are publishing your own work or not; The ability to take people's opinions about your work, whether they are good or bad.

Ella:  What is your most significant achievement as a writer?
My most significant achievement as a writer is the fact that I decided to take myself seriously as well as my writing. This allowed me to move forward and publish my work.

For more information on T. Nicole go to www.writtenbytnicole.com 

T. Nicole Author of:
My Own Terms
Scattered Thoughts Of Unpromising Romance
Moments of Clarity


Ni'cola Mitchell author Over and Over Again

A Jamaican native, Ni'cola Mitchell published her debut novel Over and Over Again through her independent publishing company NCM Publishing. Much of her work revolves around situations that are a compulsive desire to see women over come challenges. She holds a Bachelors degree of Science in Business Management and is currently pursuing a Masters of Business Administration in Health Care Management. 

Introduce us to your story and the main characters. 
NM: Over and Over Again is a fictional work based on life experiences of people and me that I have met throughout my life. It is set in present day Las Vegas, and it revolves around my main character Dionni Stone. She is a successful business owner that appears to the outside world that she has everything under control, but in actuality, it is not always what it seems. Her boyfriend of several years Dale, has had a string of affairs throughout the duration of their relationship, and has made Dionni somewhat insecure. Dionni finally decides to move on when she catches him in the act of infidelity.

Her two best friends Eva and Tiana tries to ensure that she doesn't fall back under Dale's charming spell, and with the help of their beautician David, introduces Dionni to Zay an investment banker. Dionni believes that she has found her knight in shining armor but in the end has been sucked into a black hole filled with even more lies and secrets leaving Dionni feeling as if she is going out of her mind. The message that I am trying to portray in this story is very simple. In life everyone in the world, especially women are faced with trials, tribulations, and hardships, but what allows them to be classified as a strong woman, is the way they overcome and rise above it.


Are your characters from the portrayal of real people? What inspired you to write this story?
NM: All my characters are fictional, but I did take situations, mannerisms, and characteristics from real life people to create them. What inspired me to write this story is to demonstrate to my children that if they follow their heart; anything is possible.

What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book?
NM: I addressed many issues in this book such as infidelity, deceit, low moral and self worth, sex, lies, relationships, and prostitution.

What is your most valuable lesson about the publishing industry?
That if you stay grounded, focused, and believe in your self, you can put out a successful book that can hold its own among other works in your genre. 

Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases.
NM: I was selected to be featured in the second edition of Who's Who in Black Las Vegas. Over and Over Again was also featured #10 by EDC Creations Recommended Reading list for the 2009 fall season under Mainstream Fiction and Women's Fiction. My next book entitled The Appetizer, when your not his main course, comes out in February, and Twisted is coming out in the summer of 2010. 


Contact info for Ni'cola Mitchell, Author of Over and Over Again 
Stimulating Your Mind, One Word at a Time

Email: nicola@nicolacmitchell.com 
http://www.nicolacmitchell.com 
http://www.ncmpublishing.com 
http://www.nicola.ning.com 
http://www.twitter.com/msnicola 
http://www.facebook.com/msnicola 

Links to booksellers
http://www.amazon.com/Over-Again-Nicola-Mitchell/dp/057801114X 
http://www.theliteraryjoint.com 
http://www.lybrary.com 



Donneil D. Jackson author Chante's Song

Donneil D. Jackson is a writer by nature and a Jersey girl by birth. Growing up a sheltered child, she used writing as an escape from her everyday life. She discovered that with writing she could be someone else, do things Donneil would never do and entertain others. One day she began writing Chante’s Song marking the beginning of her professional writing career.


Chante's Song
Jay-Z has a song that says, “I can’t see the tears rolling down my eyes so I gotta make the song cry. ” Chante’s Song is Chante’s Chambers Song Cry.  Chante Chambers is a thirty-something beautiful brown bombshell. By day she’s a top production studio executive, with a Prada and Manolo fetish funded by her once lover and current boss, Jason McGhee. Ms. Chambers is extremely candid in a “you either take her or leave her” sorta way. She has the means to get anything and everything she wants except for true love. Her rock hard exterior hides the soft and pink side of her, once revealed it opens her up to all types of vulnerabilities. 

Chante Chambers is a self-proclaimed princess. What mama wants her ex fiancé, Jason, makes sure she gets. The one task he failed at was being faithful, and so Chante moved on. In a pursuit for love, happiness, and monogamy sometimes mistaken for sex, she encounters an array of men, whom if you took the best traits from them all and combined them, it still didn’t create the perfect man. As soon as Chante was ready to admit defeat in her quest for love, in walks Keith, a caramel Adonis. Chante has plans of living happily ever after with Keith that is until Jason re-enters the picture. A lunch hour spent in between the sheets with Jason can complicate things or can’t it. What's a girl to do when she's torn between two lovers? Does she grab her panties off the floor and vow to never drop them again? Or does she go back for seconds?

Ella:  Are your characters from the portrayal of real people?
My characters and emotions of certain characters are motivated by the actions of real people. I can say that Chante and I share a similar experience. However I experienced it after the novel was written.

Ella:   What inspired you to write this story?
Chante’s Song was inspired by the song Chante’s Got A Man, by Chante Moore. I have a friend named Shauntae. We were on the phone one day and she began singing the song. I liked how it sound to hear Shauntae singing Chante’s got a Man. The next day I started writing and ended up with Chante’s Song.

Ella:   What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book?
My novel touches on abortion, infidelity, friendship, love, lust and drama.

Ella:  What is your most valuable lesson about the publishing industry?
This is a hard question since I am constantly learning new things. I’ve learned that everyone isn’t as friendly as they seem, nor are they honest. They will give you the run around and lie and do whatever to get out of doing good business. They will try to get over without paying you. In those cases you need to adopt that Jay-Z mentality like “F*** you Pay me!”

Ella:  What did you hope to accomplish by writing this particular story?
I didn’t write this novel with hopes of inspiring others. I wrote this novel to purely entertain readers. Writing allows me to escape my every day life and fantasize with pen and a piece of paper. 

Ella:  Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases.
My second novel, Foolish will debut March 2010. I am also apart of the Literary Sistah's Book tour kicking off in 2010.

Donneil D. Jackson, Author of Chante's Song
www.Pureblisspublishing.com     
www.literarysistahs.com 
Escape into pure bliss!



Intimate Conversation with S. Dodson

S. Dodson is originally from Arkansas and currently resides in Virginia. She is pursuing her doctorate in education. She holds a BA in psychology and a MA in counseling. She is the owner of a small publishing house Mahogney Ink Publications. Her upcoming releases are Cheating On My Mistress (the sequel), and From Minority to Thinking Like The Majority. In her spare time, she enjoys writing, cooking and spending time with loved ones.

Ella:  Introduce us to your story, message and the main characters. 
Cheating On My Mistress is about the life of a retired NBA player named Carmelo Miller. 
He has the money, cars, house, and the family. Looking from the outside in, everything seems perfect. There is one small issue. Carmelo is bored with his sex life. Instead of talking it out with his wife, he steps outside of his marriage and starts a relationship with two women: Monique and Augustine. 

Monique is a young vixen. She is freaky, but ambitious. She uses what she got in hopes of making it big and becoming a video girl. She is a typical mistress believing that one day Carmelo will leave his wife for her. In contrast you have Augustine. She is pretty enough to be on the arm of any well established man. She is the type that doesn‘t have marriage anywhere on her agenda. These outside relationships result in Carmelo learning what is done in the dark will eventually come to light. The message I want readers to get is when you do wrong it will come back on you no matter how smart you think you are. 

Ella:  What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book? 
In Cheating On My Mistress, I address the issues associated with cheating. I give you the good, the bad and the ugly: the risk of having unprotected sex, being seen as the “man”, and the revenge. In addition, I give you the perspectives of the mistress, the wife, and the cheater.


Ella:  Are your characters from the portrayal of real people?
Cheating On My Mistress and the characters are a work of fiction. The story came to me in a dream. The next morning I got out of bed and began putting my thoughts on paper. My main characters are Carmelo, Augustine, and Monique. Each of these characters bring something different to the story.

Ella:  What is your most valuable lesson about the publishing industry?
The most valuable lesson I learned is that you need to do research before you get involved with anything that is unfamiliar. When I decided to write a book, I searched the internet and went to the library. I wanted to know as much as possible about the industry. 

Ella:  Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases.
I recently began promoting my company Mahogney Ink Publications. Mahogney Ink Publications is a small publishing house searching for raw and new talent. The company is searching for everything from poetry to street lit. Also, I am getting ready to promote my 2010 novel Cheating On My Mistress (the sequel). I also plan to release a self help book in 2011 titled From Minority to Thinking Like The Majority. 

Links:
www.mahogneyinkpublications.com 
www.cheatingonmymistress.blogspot.com 

Book seller links:
Cushcity.com
Amazon.com
Precious Memories Bookstore


                                 Intimate Conversation with Stefanie Newell

Stefanie Newell was born and raised in Chicago, IL. She graduated from DePaul University with a B.A. in Finance. While finance has been her day job, she has been a writer for many years in different facets. Stefanie first co-wrote a song for Latin recording artist, Yohany and later began freelance writing for Unrated Magazine and her entertainment blog The Music Hot Spot. After observing the entertainment industry and lurking on various message boards and blogs over the years, Stefanie came up with the idea for her debut novel The Buzz. Published by Write One Publications, Inc., The Buzz has created an incredible buzz amongst book readers and fans of celebrity gossip. Stefanie is currently working on her second novel Rules of the Game.

The Buzz is the story of three people all searching for buzz in their own ways. Ebony Jenkins has exactly what most women are seeking - a good looking devoted boyfriend, a flourishing business and a beautiful little girl. But people don't know about the lies and deception behind her faux celebrity lifestyle. Despite her loving the glitz and glam, she despises celebrities and her Internet addiction is feeding her dislike more and more everyday. Buzz is an up and coming rapper and Ebony's boyfriend. He's a great boyfriend and father to their child but he feels unappreciated. Arika is an R&B singer who's just hit the music scene. She's busy living her dream and adapting to her new celebrity life. Chaos erupts when all of their lives cross paths and Ebony suspects that Buzz is cheating with Arika. To what lengths will Ebony go to ruin Arika's career?

Ella:  Tell us a little about your main characters. Who was your favorite? Why?
A: I liked all of them in their own way but my favorite character hands down would have to be Ebony. She's fiery and has a very strong personality. You either love her or hate her! There's really no in between with her! She's a successful hair stylist, but nothing is ever good enough for her. She wants to be known as the baddest chick in the Chi. She despises celebrities and spends most of her day gossiping on the Internet. 

Arika is a lot more timid. She's really trying to adjust and stay grounded in her new celebrity lifestyle. She's the R&B newcomer in the music industry. She's everywhere! On TV, the radio, magazines and her hometown of Chicago is really showing her a lot of love. Buzz is Ebony's boyfriend and an up and coming rapper. He's passionate. He's dedicated. And he's loyal. He's an all around good guy but he has a girlfriend who doesn't appreciate him. So imagine the turmoil.

Ella: Are your characters from the portrayal of real people?
A: Yes Ebony definitely is! Not someone I know personally but people I observed on the internet. I am a freelance writer and blogger and I often visit message boards and blogs looking for content for my site. But I would get sidetracked because some of the people I would encounter on these sites were characters waiting to happen. Their comments were witty and funny, their opinions were strong. These are people that really enjoy reading and commenting on celebrity gossip! So I thought it would be interesting to tell The Buzz from the perspective of a person spreading the celebrity gossip. Who would this person be? What would motivate them to create a rumor? 

Ella:  What is the best piece of advice you would give to an aspiring author?
A: I would encourage them to approach the process as creatively and genuine as possible. When I was writing The Buzz, I would engross myself in the characters. There were things that happened in the book that even I didn't see coming. (laughs)


Ella:  Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases. 

A: I'm really excited about the newest release from my company. Its a self-help book entitled Pull Your Pants Up and Be a Man! by Bernice Harris. This book is truly inspiring and a must have for every young man! Its a book that inspires thought and change but also provides steps for the young men to take towards having a prosperous life. The foreword was written by actor Malik Yoba and his contribution was a seamless compliment to the words of the author! 

The Buzz and Pull Your Pants Up can be purchased at www.writeonepublications.com. And you can find me at www.twitter.com/stefanienewell,   www.facebook.com/stefanienewell  and www.themusichotspot.com 



Intimate Conversation with authors
Tracie E. Christian and Adra Young

Black Pearls family join me in welcoming the dynamic writing team of Tracie E. Christian and  Adra Young. Tracie Christian is a native of Detroit, Michigan and has nine years in the field of education and seven years experience of special events planning. Entering into the world of independent publishing in 2007, Ms. Christian's first book titled, The Black College Sabbatical Fall Quarter, has taken the country by storm. Her second release, The Black College Sabbatical Winter Quarter was released in March of 2009. Effortlessly working on this fiction trilogy series, Ms. Christian is wife, mother, poet, motivational speaker,  widely known and acclaimed advocate for the Detroit  Arts Community. Currently, Tracie Christian is on her Live Ladies of  Literary Tour with partner AdraYoung.

Adra Young is a native of Gary, Indiana and educator of 14 years for the Detroit Public Schools. Wanting the issues of children to be heard and represented, Ms. Young wrote her first book, The Everyday Living of Children & Teens Monologues in 2005. In 2006 Ms. Young created ARDANNYL, a after school performing arts company that provides acting, singing, dance, and creative arts.  Ms. Young's second release, The Everyday Living of Children & Teens Monologues Volume II was released in November of 2008.  Ms. Young is currently on her Live Ladies of Literary Tour with partner Tracie Christian.

" ... as  literary artist, we are showing the world how secure sisters can have each others backs."

Ms. Christian in collaboration with Literary Partner and Ms. Adra Young, kicked off the LIVE LADIES of LITERATURE BOOK TOUR where the ladies host signings, readings and selling of their fiction and non-fiction titles, The Black College Sabbatical (Christian) and The Everyday Living of Children and Teens Monologues (Young). Aside from the release of the second installment to her book series, Winter Quarter in March 2009, Christian also launched the "Say It Loud...I'm Black College Proud" seminar series for junior and senior high school aged youth to become informed, entertained and engaged in exploring the numerous educational opportunities made available through historically black colleges and universities.


Ella: Tell us about your passion for writing. Why do you write? What drives you? What impact do you want your book to make on the readers?

Tracie Christian's Passion for Writing:

Ms. Christian's everlasting ability to always have something to say not only purged her passion to write her first book and others to come.

Adra Young's Passion for Writing:
Adra Young simply wanted to be the voice for the unheard child.

Ella:  Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... 

Tracie Christian's Legacy to Future Readers

Ms. Christian's writing offers real life reminders of the awkwardness and vulnerability of the human condition. In other words, art imitates life. Seeing the real life depictions offered through Ms. Christian's writing's allows readers to connect and draw back to realistic situations and endings.

Adra Young's Legacy to Future Readers

Ms.Young's legacy is to ensure that the unforgotten child is exposed in her writings.  That is the legacy that Adra Young wants to leave behind to all her readers.

Ella: Ladies, Introduce us to your books and the messages within.

Tracie E. Christian's Book Introduction

Tracie E. Christian, a native of Detroit, Michigan attended both Central State and Wayne State Universities, studying both speech Communications.  A former educator with Detroit Public Schools, Tracie is founder/ CEO of KTE foundation for literacy Discovery incorporated, a non-profit Literacy Arts organization dedicated to producing innovative special events that support their mission of "Keeping it R.E.A.L."  Revitalizing Excitement Around Literacy for the Detroit area youth.  Tracie resides in Detroit with her family.

Ms. Christian's book series, The Black College Sabbatical, is based upon a fiction adventurous plot of four young ladies learning life experiences while attending a historical black institution. Currently, Ms. Christian's topic for discussion pertaining to her book series is, the following, "Please provide in your own words in 60 seconds or less your knowledge content on Historical Black Institutions.

Adra Young's Book Introduction 
Adra Young is a native of Gary, Indiana.  She is an author and acting coach. Young was accepted and attended the prestigious Central State University in Wilberforce, Ohio. In 2005, Ms. Young wrote her first book, The Everyday living of Children & Teens Monologues. The concept was to provide a acting guide for today's youth that placed a direct emphasis on appropriate socialization skills. Her second book, The Everyday Living of Children & Teens Monologues Volume II is a sequel to the first was released in 2008.  Modeling the same concept as the first, Volume II is a realistic testament of dilemma's20and situations that today's youth have been exposed to.  Currently, Ms. Young's topic for discussion is the following, "How many individuals are aware of the traumatic issues are kids, tweens, and teens are exposed to today?"

Ella: How did Tracie Christian start her writing journey?

Tracie Christian started her writing journey at the age of nine. Ms. Christian would both write and illustrate short stories based upon her experiences with her friends.

Ella: How did Adra Young start her writing journey?
Adra Young started her writing journey as an acting coach at the age 30 . She offered to write the scripts and dialogues for a local entertainment company in Detroit and from that point her creativity in writing took off.

Ella: Why was it important  for Tracie Christian to create her books?
Ms. Christian reasoning for creating her books is to share her insight lessons and ideology with the world in hopes of making their lives better.

Ella: Why was it important for Adra Young to create her books?
Ms. Young believed and felt that the voice of the unheard youth needed to be addressed.  She simply wanted to be there advocate.

Ella: How will Tracie Christian's books impact  parent-child relationships?
Ms. Christian books impact parent-child relationships by providing an informal setting for touchy topics associated with adolescence while growing up to be addressed and explored.

Ella: How will Adra Young's books impact parent-child relationships?
Adra Young's books will impact parent -child relationships by allowing parents and children both to observed and see the issues at hand of the youth today together which shall in result initiate a positive beginning of effective communication and understanding necessary and needed for productive loving parent/child bonds.

Ella: What can we expect from Author Tracie Christian in the future?
Tracie Christian and partner Adra Young are in the process of creating their non-profit organization titled, (UWAN) United Writers Artist Network, an organization solely designed to support artist in all arenas.  In addition, Ms. Christian and Ms. Young want to take their seminar titled, "The Guide to the Book in You Series, on tour nationally. Tracie Christian's third book from her series, The Black College Sabbatical will be released in 2010. And her fourth coming book, A Toast to the Fool will be released in 2012.



Ella: What can we expect from Author Adra Young in the future?
Adra Young and partner Tracie Christian are in the process of creating their non-profit organization titled, (UWAN) United Writers Artist Network, an organization solely designed to support artist in all arenas. In addition, Ms. Young and Ms. Christian want to take their seminar titled, The Guide to the Book In You Series ,on tour nationally. Adra Young's goals for the future are to write her first fiction book titled " The Misfits"


Ella: Tell us about Tracie Christian's awards and latest news?
Ms. Christian won the Spirit of Detroit Award in both 1999 and in 2004.  In addition she was also nominated as the 2002 poet of the year with Poetry.Com.  In 2008,RawSistaz Book Club, a  renown nationally review club stated that Christian's First book, The Black College Sabbatical Fall Quarter was simply hard to put down.  Ms. Christian was the 2009 Spot light featured author for Book Event's Center, and Black Author's Showcase.  Ms. Christian's first free lance article shall be released in 2009 in City Talk Magazine, a local magazine established in  Detroit  by Katrina Brown, that caters to the positive activities taking place within the South-East of Michigan.

E
lla: Tell us about Adra Young's awards and latest news?
Ms. Young was featured in the National Rolling Out Magazine in 2008. Her second release, The Everyday Living of Children & Teens Monologues Volume II was name the Monologues Guide To Have for the youth by City Kids World Magazine in 2009.

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Infidelity by Ericka Williams
Email: erickawilliamsinfo@yahoo.com  
Author Website: www.erickaw.com 

"Once a cheater, always a cheater" is a popular saying. Is it true? Some people believe that if you are not married, then you are single and free to "see" whomever you want to, until you take vows and become committed to your spouse. Others believe that if you are in a relationship with someone, it is cheating to talk to someone of the opposite sex; especially if the conversation is one that cannot be had in the presence of your significant other. To this group, going out on a date or any intimate contact with someone else is wrong and drama will unfold. 

Nowadays, with Facebook, My Space, and a million other social networking sites, not to mention, everything else that we can do online, it is very hard to trust or be in a committed relationship with someone at all—married or single. One cannot possibly make sure that their "other half" is not involved with someone else with all the possible ways to "mix and mingle". 

So what is a person to do in this day of AIDS epidemics? How do you guarantee that you’re safe and in a monogamous relationship? Some believe that "snooping" is unacceptable, but I beg to differ. Yes, we all would love to be able to just trust and believe that our partner is being true. But, isn't a cheater also a liar? So how can someone who is cheating on you tell you the truth? I will be frank in saying that if I suspect that my "man" is cheating, that I will do my homework. I will do what I have to do to protect myself, my interests, and my health. I am very open when it comes to being in a relationship, because if there is nothing to hide. I don't have to hide my cell phone, or have a lock on it. What about the right to privacy? I don't need it if I am being faithful. My business is my man's business. What are your thoughts on this?

Yes, men and women are different and men oftentimes feel trapped in relationships, so it doesn't necessarily mean that he is cheating because he doesn't want you reading his texts from his "ex." Then again, "Why can't I?" if there's nothing in them indecent. I think the problem really lies in lying to begin with. A man, or woman for that matter who is not ready to be in a committed relationship, should not commit to being in one. The reason many people "go along" with being in a relationship, when they are not ready for one, is to hold on to the person they love, until they are ready to be loyal. But that is just a selfish way to live. It will only come back to bite you when you get caught out there. It is not fair to the person who you are supposed to love and it is cruel to put their health in danger because you are not ready. An Essence poll showed that many Black men who cheat admitted that they do not always or regularly use condoms when they cheat. That is just not fair.

There are so many distractions and attractions for people, but there is also such a thing as self-control. Actually, it is understandable that people will have urges, but do they have to act them out? Why is it that a man will throw away his whole family for a night of indiscretion? Why is it that having one woman is not enough? I must side with some men who say that their women get comfortable, and no longer are concerned with keeping them satisfied, once they have the man. It happens. I must also say that there is a noticeable lack of respect from the single woman in regards to married men, with wives at home! Unfortunately nowadays, anything goes, relationships are temporary, and people are only together until they break up. What happened to true commitment and to “death do us part?” Are we really doomed to lives of expected infidelity? What’s sad is that nothing is sacred, cherished, or sustained. Many children will not know what it is like to have two parents in the same home; just as many children of divorce must see the breakup of their families. All while, some just continue to "stick and move." Are there any people in this world who want to stick together, through thick and thin and live out the real til’ death do us part? It doesn't look that way. If you are in a committed and loving relationship, speak up and tell us about it! Bring back the HOPE to our relationships.


Meet the Author
Ericka Williams is a determined business woman and author. She never takes no for an answer. When she sets her mind on a goal, she doesn't stop until it is reached. She is a graduate of Teaneck High School, in Teaneck New Jersey. She attended Howard University and graduated from Rutgers University. She is currently a teacher. Ericka has always had a yearning for knowledge, expression, and creativity. She is the author of three books the Essence Magazine bestseller “All That Glitters”, and the sequel “Shining Star”, as well as the forthcoming release A Woman Scorned.  ISBN-10: 1934230715 or ISBN-13:9781934239718. Pick up a copy at Amazon Online. http://www.amazon.com/Woman-Scorned-Ericka-Williams/dp/1934230715 



Domestic Violence and Revenge: Two Sides of the Same Coin
By Ericka Williams
Email: erickawilliamsinfo@yahoo.com  
Author Website: www.erickaw.com 

Domestic Violence is a touchy and controversial subject. In society it is considered unacceptable and unconceivable for a man to physically batter his girlfriend or wife. The recent incident with singers Chris Brown and Rihanna was a publicized and highly debated event. Many famous people expressed discontent with, criticized, and verbally condemned Chris Brown; while siding with and supporting Rihanna, without being witnesses to the occurrence. I have two conflicting feelings in regards to domestic violence. Generally, I believe that it is wrong to hit a person that you are supposed to care for, because that person may be critically injured or killed. Many women have died at the hands of the men they loved. It is a dangerous habit and a problem that escalates over time, as many statistics prove. Relationships are so multi-faceted and often times built on foundations of lust, long before love. Add is a little stress, a few lies by omission and things get out of hand quickly. 

Many young women have the misconception that if a man puts his hand on them, it is because he loves them enough to lose control, because if he didn't care he wouldn't get that angry. Herein lies the problem: a man who does not know how to deal with his emotions or control his anger, is a man to fear. When a man starts the cycle of abuse often times the assaults become worse and worse as time goes on and more and more frequent. What may begin as a shove may turn into a punch and ultimately a murder. Emotions run high in matters of the heart and volatile relationships don't become healthy ones easily. When things are going great is not the time to decide whether you are with the right man. However, the time to assess who you really love is when there are issues or conflicts. No one should hurt you in order to show their love. Your spouse or mate should be able to deal with problems with their mind and not their fists. When the schoolyard fighting days are over, adults need to know how to handle situations. 

As an author, I write about these situations because I see them unfold daily; most likely not receiving the same publicity of Chris and Rihanna. My book, A Woman Scorned, addresses the issue of domestic violence from the female abuser’s point of view. The main character, Brielle Prescott, remained in an abusive marriage partially because of her physical abuse by her parents as a child. The emotional scars and distress from being battered lasts, affecting the victim for a lifetime, in many cases, in real life and in my fictional tales.

No matter how damaged the individual is there really an excuse to hit someone you are involved with? What if she/he cheats? What if she/he lies about where they were and who they were with? What if she spends the money that should have gone to bills? Is there really any justification for physical abuse except for the fact that it comes from lack of rationale. When a man lashes out, he may not intend to black an eye, bust a lip, break a limb, or commit a stabbing or shooting, but that does not mean it won't happen. As a woman who has dealt with more than one hostile and violent man in my lifetime, I know that it is by the grace of God that I was never badly hurt. However, I could have been. I choose not to excuse that behavior in my "seasoned" time as a woman. 

I decided to heed the warning signs and not leave my life in the hands of an irrational man, because life and death are only a breath and heartbeat away from each other, and in one split second you can be gone. Contrary to what I just expressed, however, I do understand what rage feels like. I have been wronged by past boyfriends, as well, and it is not a good feeling. I know how it feels to lose control and lash out with my fists. I have been on both sides of this issue and that’s why I wrote A Woman Scorned. My main character, Brielle, is a victim and a perpetrator. She becomes the very thing she had come to hate, an abuser. She resorts to revenge, which is also a form of domestic violence—if violence is the means to getting that revenge. 

How do we know what Rihanna did to Chris Brown to make him lash out? How do we know that she did not hit him first? Many might say that it doesn't matter because a woman is not capable of hurting a man the way a man is able to hurt a woman. However, is that true when a woman has a weapon? No, it is not. I have brought Domestic Violence and Revenge together because there is sometimes a marriage of the two in relationships. Domestic Violence is sometimes a reaction to a real injustice that is done to someone and Revenge is a reaction to the same. Therefore, what I believe we must do as a society is be more understanding, as opposed to condemning. Next, offer help to those who are on both sides of the issue. Chris Brown expressed a feeling of betrayal from Oprah for "all that he had done for her" because he said that he expected Oprah to offer him some advice or assistance in how to heal as well. Rihanna was not the only one who needed support. He is human, as we all are. 

I am not condoning abusers or anyone who inflicts pain on another. But let’s be real, it happens, on both sides! None of us can handle things the right way, at all times. Emotions run high the matter of love. So why is it that we find it okay, to kill the perpetrator? Isn't that violence too? What about trying to find the root of the problem? Let’s try to find the stressors that created the violence and address those issues, instead of rushing to judgment. I am sure many of you have opinions on revenge and what defines domestic violence. Share your views on the subject too, let’s talk about it.


Meet the Author
Ericka Williams is a determined business woman and author. She never takes no for an answer. When she sets her mind on a goal, she doesn't stop until it is reached. She is a graduate of Teaneck High School, in Teaneck New Jersey. She attended Howard University and graduated from Rutgers University. She is currently a teacher. Ericka has always had a yearning for knowledge, expression, and creativity. She is the author of three books the Essence Magazine bestseller “All That Glitters”, and the sequel “Shining Star”, as well as the forthcoming release A Woman Scorned. Pick up a copy at Amazon Online. http://www.amazon.com/Woman-Scorned-Ericka-Williams/dp/1934230715 


 

Intimate Conversation with Eat and Compete

Eat and Compete's Story: 56% of New Yorkers are overweight or obese. 40% of them are elementary school children who are currently at risk for having shorter life spans than their parents; in addition to Diabetes, High Blood Pressure and a host of other serious health conditions. Eat and Compete is a producer of Natural Specialty Foods that started in response to the obesity crisis currently facing New York. We believe that eating well helps to put you in the right state of mind and body in order to be able to compete and succeed in the world, hence our name Eat and Compete

Ella:  What separates you and your firm from the competition? 
We offer products that are socially and environmentally responsible; creative, full of flavor, versatility and zest! We strive to always support community food education programs that target, support and empower disenfranchised inner city youth and their families with information they need to make better food choices.

Ella:  How would you describe your experience as an Entrepreneur? 
Eventful, challenging and rewarding.

Ella:  What do you like most about your profession? 
Meeting and conversing with people who want to live a better life and are now more mindful about the types of food that they put into their bodies. 

Ella:   What is your biggest challenge in business? How did you overcome it? 
One of our biggest challenges in business is getting the word out that our company exists. We have begun to overcome it by coming out to the community and letting people experience our products.

Ella:   What advice would you give someone just starting out in your industry? 
Failure is easy. Success takes a lot of work, focus, faith and prayer.

Ella:   What do you hope to offer your clients or customers to shape their lives? 
We offer versatile, great tasting and creative quality Natural Specialty products that transcend the spectrum of international taste buds while benefiting the mind and body. We add NO: ? Hydrogenated Trans-fats ? Sugar ? Caffeine ? Artificial additives and Colorings ? Sulfites or ? High Fructose Corn Syrup to our products.

Ella:   What are 3 things all leaders possess? 
Vision/focus, energy and consistency.

Ella:   How does your mission or vision keep your business growing? 
Our passion for producing quality natural specialty food products and helping people make better food choices keeps us inspired and out in the community which in turns builds our brand recognition and grows our business.

Eat and Compete™ 
Specialty Natural Food for the High Energy Lifestyle

We are "Your Better Choice"! 
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Who Was The Mysterious Queen Nefertiti?
By: Rob Mabry 

In 1924, a bust of a beautiful woman was put on display at the Egyptian Museum in Berlin. The bust depicts a woman with a long, slender neck and possessed of great beauty. In fact her name, "Nefertiti," means the "beautiful one has come."

Despite her vast beauty and the rise of her legend in modern times, details of Nefertiti’s life are scarce and were it not for the discovery of this exquisite bust, she may have faded from ancient history all together.

Queen Nefertiti was wife to the Pharaoh Akhenaten, ruler of Egypt around the time of 1350 B.C. It is believed that after his death, she may have ruled Egypt herself for a time. But history whispers that Nefertiti had many enemies, and that those enemies may have assisted in erasing both her life and her legacy.

What we do know of this elegant Egyptian queen comes mostly from the Aten Temple and an ongoing excavation at Amarna by the British Egypt Exploration Society. Some Egyptologists theorize that her name’s meaning, "the beautiful one has come" is evidence that she entered Egypt from a foreign land. Others believe she may have descended from royal blood. There is also a contingent of scholars that believe she was daughter to Ay, a powerful political figure, who became Pharaoh after the death of King Tut. A death in which they suspect he may have played a hand.

While details of her life before marriage are scant, her rise to power along with her husband, the Pharaoh Akhenaten, provides some insight into the mysterious queen. Their elevation of Aten, the sun disc god, as the "true god" proved controversial and many believe this monotheistic direction was plotted by Queen Nefertiti herself. This practice did not sit well with the Egyptian priesthood and surely garnered the ruling couple an army of powerful enemies.

Questions still shroud the life and death of this controversial and enigmatic queen of the Nile. Her name and history were erased from historical records and statues and busts that bore her likeness destroyed as Egypt returned to polytheism. Only traces of the intriguing story of her past remain. The cause of her death too remains a mystery. With so many powerful enemies in the priesthood, she may well have succumbed to the perils of her own ambition.

With so little historical evidence, we are left mostly with speculation and conjecture that draw an incomplete picture of an intriguing historical figure. Anyone who has the good fortune to visit the Egyptian Museum in Berlin and see the bust of this exquisite Egyptian queen will wonder at her beauty and wonder even more about her life as a queen of the Nile.


About the Author
Rob Mabry is owner of  Your Museum Store, an online store offering unique museum replicas and reproductions including dinosaurs fossils and art and artifacts. Not likely to make it to the Egyptian Museum in Berlin any time soon? Why not bring home the enticing beauty of the Nefertiti bust?

 



African American Diet
By: Shalisha Alston 

Greasy Foods - The Holy Grail Of African American Diet 
I do not know about you, but when I was growing up, my mom cooked fried chicken (no, not oven "fried" chicken, we are talking about southern deep fried chicken), macaroni and cheese topped with tons of butter and mounds of cheese, collard greens cooked in chicken fat, hot buttered biscuits and brown gravy for dinner - at least twice a week. 

Yes, I know you are salivating right about now. Here is another past time favorite to which I am sure you can relate - deep fried catfish, red beans and rice soaked in oil, candied yams with tons of butter, sugar, and cinnamon and deep fried pork chops. 

I can relate. I grew up in a family of 9 where food portions were humongous. I mean we are talking about a 9-year-old whose plate was filled to the edges that was even too much for an adult! Years later, with the same poor dietary habits intact, I ballooned up to 213 pounds! 

My Food History Repeated Itself 
So there I was 20 years later weighing 185 pounds. I thought I could control it. The smallest I had ever been was 140 pounds. But my weight went up and down my whole life. Finally, I crossed the line where I could not stop eating. I was addicted to fried foods, white flour and sugar, but I did not know that until 3 more years of food agony and an additional weight gain of 18 pounds. 

My Health Deteriorated 
I come from a long line of strokes, heart attacks, diabetes and high blood pressure. At age 29, severely overweight and a heavy smoker, I was headed down the same path as my ancestors. 

My Aha Moment 
There was a voice inside me that said, "Shalisha, you are lost when it comes to food. Get help." I did. I was introduced to a food plan that was abundant, healthy, delicious, and made me lose 90 pounds in 6 months. This was no diet. It was a lifestyle change. So here are the top 5 reasons I think the African American diet is in dire need of an overhaul: 

1.The African American diet is extremely high in fat 
2.The African American diet is extremely high in sugar 
3.The African American diet lacks fruit 
4.The African American diet lacks vegetables 
5.The African American diet is extremely high in sodium 

If you want to start eating healthy and lose weight: 
1.Stop deep frying and start broiling 
2.Cut out sugar and white flour 
3.Include at least 5 servings of vegetables daily 
4.Include at least 3 servings of fruit daily 
5.Drink plenty of water (8-12 cups) 
6.Take the salt shaker off the table 

One more thing - dare to be different! Demand that your neighborhood Key Food supermarket carry Fage Fat-Free Greek Yogurt. Demand that your friendly neighborhood Met Food supermarket carry organic fruits and vegetables. 

All it takes is one person to lead the way. Be a power of example and show other African Americans in the community that it is not only okay to eat healthy - it is a matter of life and death. By making those 6 small dietary adjustments, you will go a long way to improving your health and losing weight.


About the author
Shalisha Alston is an African American weight loss consultant (http://www.weightlossforblackpeople.com). She lost 90 pounds in 6 months and you can do the same. Download her ideal African American Diet and learn how. 
(http://www.curb-your-carb-intake.com) Find out more at http://weightlossforblackpeople.com 

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50 Ways to Commit Suicide With Food
By: Shalisha Alston 

There is an old song called "50 Ways to Leave Your Lover." It was a very funny and popular song. Unfortunately, there are no popular songs called "50 Ways to Commit Suicide with Food." Maybe it would make us think about how we are killing ourselves with food! This article is about the many ways we commit suicide with food - and aren't even aware of it. It is so commonly acceptable to super-size servings that we are unaware just how deadly this practice is. We are slowly killing ourselves with food. 

400,000 Obesity Related Deaths Each Year 
The obesity rate continues to soar worldwide. 400,000 deaths each year are attributed to obesity. Spending money on weight loss products like Hoodia Gordonii surpassed the $750 million sales mark this past year! These statistics are appalling. Yet, it seems the government is committed to seeing its people commit suicide with food! 

50 Ways to Commit Suicide With Food 
I won't list all 50, but here are the top 20 ways to kill yourself with food: 1) eating sugar; 2) eating high fat foods; 3) eating processed foods; 4) lack of exercise; 5) eating trans fatty foods; 6) eating lots of red meat; 7) eating full fat dairy products; 8) eating artificial sweeteners; 9) eating foods with high fructose corn syrup; 10) eating foods with MSG; 11) eating foods with tons of pesticides; 12) lack of portion control; 13) super-sizing meals; 14) drinking alcohol; 15) eating too much salt. As a result, we gain these diseases which kill us: 16) diabetes; 17) high blood pressure; 18) thyroid problems; 18) asthma; 19) coronary heart disease; and 20) various forms of cancer. This list can go on and on to list more than 50 ways we commit suicide with food, but that's enough for now. Let's get to the solution - how to lose weight and keep it off! 

Aren’t You Tired of Yo-Yo Dieting? 
Losing weight is not about going on a diet. It’s about learning which foods to eat and how often to eat them so that you stay satiated, keep your blood level on an even keel, and eating until you’re comfortably full. Eating foods high in fiber such as oatmeal, fruit and vegetables, enable you to stay full longer because glucose is released into your bloodstream at a slow rate – as opposed to eating highly processed foods – which will make your blood sugar rise and dip quickly. When you eat sugary fatty foods, you get quick energy, but you crash and burn shortly thereafter and you’re left ravenously hungry, which makes you reach for that donut 15 minutes later. Then the vicious food and weight gain cycle start again. 

"Just Say No" to Food 
The key to rapid safe weight loss and healthy living is to remember that we have to eat to live – not live to eat. To learn more about healthy eating and weight loss, do a little bit of research on your computer. There are more than 50 ways to eat healthier and live a longer life, than 50 ways to commit suicide with food!

About the author: 
Shalisha is a successful weight loss coach who has lost 90 pounds and has kept it off for over 10 years. Do you want to stop food cravings, lose weight and keep it off without all the hassles of food scales and cups? Visit http://www.Curb-Your-Carb-Intake.com 

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Effective Time Management For Today's 
Christian Entrepreneur

By: Ericka Jackson 

As believers, mastering effective time management is one of the greatest ways we can be fruitful and demonstrate our faithfulness. We have to do all that secular businesses do and find time for our prayer, meditation, worship, and service. As believers, we have to be twice as good to be a full reflection of God’s glory. There is one business principle that is true for all businesses – your business will prosper to the extent that you master peak productivity. The key to executing at a peak performance level is having effective time management habits. 

It is truly possible to know what God created you to do and live life longing for it, without ever making the time to actually carry it out. Second to lack of trusting God to provide, lack of time management is the reason so many people never fully bring forth God’s vision for their lives. It would be a torturous existence, but people do it everyday because it is so easy to stay completely busy each and every day of your life without making a single significant dent in God’s intended purpose for your life. 

In God’s Kingdome, time multiplies when we put Him first. Now is the time to take an inventory of how you are spending your time. Is it forwarding your freedom and vision? Is how you currently spend your time adding to your income? Remember that your schedule should be full of tasks and commitments that bring you joy, increase your spiritual and physical energy, and create profits for your business. 

As believers, time is more valuable than money and you often need to tune-up your schedule. Here are my top five effective time management secrets that can transform your relationship to time. 

§ Slow down to get more done. This is my best time tip ever! Traditional myths of success tell you that the busier your schedule is, the more successful you will be and this is just not true. The more focused and smarter you work, the more successful you will be. S-L-O-W down and you will find yourself getting more and more done. 

§ Take time to plan out your year, quarter, month, week and day. This sounds basic, but so few people actually do it. When will you complete that large project? When will you make those follow-up calls? What days are available for meetings? When are you available to serve? Block out those days on your calendar and you will know how much time you have left to work with. 

§ Limit access to your schedule. This is one of the greatest techniques of all time! Guard your time because it is the most valuable asset you own. The more you create undisturbed time to complete priority tasks, the more quickly you will bring forth the success you desire. Allow your voicemail to pick up your calls for 2-3 hours per day, turn off your cell phone ringer, set up phone meetings instead of live meetings, limit the number of incoming calls you accept, have people send you faxes before you will set up a phone appointment with them, etc. Hang up a “Do Not Disturb” sign…do whatever it takes to guard your time like it is more precious than diamonds or rubies. 

§ Handle outgoing before incoming. Always handle outgoing tasks first and then open the gates to you incoming items only once you have sent out your priority communication for the day. Place your phone calls before you even check your voicemail messages. Send out your necessary emails before you even peek into your email inbox. (Please disable any email notifications or pop-up notifications.) Send out those letters before you open your mail for the day. 

§ Choose 3-5 main visionary tasks to complete first thing each day. Choose only your most important 3-5 tasks to complete that day and do then first thing. Limit all access to you until you complete these tasks and you will find that the productivity will increase your energy and the time you have for everything else. 
As you continue to move from busy to more profitable in your life and business, there are some great questions you should ask yourself so you can uncover any deep-seated habits, or self-sabotaging patterns that will set you back. Ask yourself, “What are my time wasters and excuses?” and “What am I hiding from by always staying too busy?” Implementing these five techniques alone will get you back in control of your schedule. With these questions and techniques, you are on the road to increasing your fruitfulness.

About the author: 
Ericka D. Jackson is a Christian Speaker, Author, and Business Coach. She provides individuals, organizations, and churches with the tools to achieve God’s vision for their lives. Visit http://www.erickajackson.com  for insights, techniques and resources to fulfill your calling.

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The 10 Steps To Emotional Healing
By: Ericka Jackson 

You may think that emotional issues should be relegated to the couch in your local therapist or psychologist’s office, yet if you have experienced anything in your past that has left you feeling hurt, disappointed, or not enough, you are walking around with unresolved emotional issues. While you may think you are masking them effectively and they don’t affect your business, guess again. Have you ever met an irate or rude vendor that just seemed to have a “chip” on their shoulder? Have you had to deal with an employee who seems to be depressed or have sadness in their energy? Have you ever held back from sharing a business idea or your business vision with someone because you doubted that they would take you seriously? 

All of these scenarios exist solely because of unresolved and unhealed emotional issues. Whether or not you are aware of it, I would be willing to bet that you are still harboring something that is holding back your success. Unless you are highly aware of the state of your heart and know how to walk yourself through the steps to emotional healing, you are more than likely slowing your potential success because of your issues. 

Now for the good news…you can do something about it. As a matter of fact, you can be completely free of any and all emotional triggers, pain, and unresolved hurt. Although it doesn’t happen overnight, the old myth that time heals all pain is simply not true. You only heal and release to the extent that you handle the pain. While women usually cover their emotional issues with sadness, shopping, or developing a hardened attitude, men’s hurt shows up with exaggerated toughness or a larger than-life ego. It may also show up in cockiness or avoiding relationships that could potentially leave them open to future hurt. 

By following the following steps, you can eradicate your messed-up emotions once and for all: 

1. Acknowledge that incomplete pain is present. 

2. Identify the source of the pain. When did it begin? Who is it associated with? When was the last time you remember not having this emotional pain? 

3. Fully realize the depth of the pain you are feeling. When you allow yourself to feel it, how badly does it hurt? Where do you carry the pain? 

4. Ask yourself what you made it mean about yourself. What conclusions did you draw about yourself? What did you attach or Velcro to what happened? How are you punishing yourself? How are you sabotaging yourself? Did you make it mean that you aren’t good enough or worthy enough? 

5. Remember the negative and positive that you experienced. What lessons did you learn? What blessings have come out of the pain? 

6. Express your pain. Let it out…bring completion to the situation without doing harm to yourself or anyone else. Go beyond the anger. Write it. Speak it. Scream it (into a pillow or on a walk in the woods). 

7. Re-program yourself to redefine your reality. Work on the things that make you feel lovable and deserving of the best. Post what you really want to internalize and believe on your walls, in your wallet, on your desk and on your dashboard. 

8. Pray! Pray! Pray! Take time to get in touch with God and the fact that you are a child of God. Give your burden to God. Release it. Ask God to take the pain from your heart and spirit. He will. You can wake up and no longer have to carry that raw feeling of hurt and pain. 

9. Forgive yourself and the other(s) involved. They didn’t know better or didn’t act on what they know to be right at the time. Even if it appeared that they vindictively or purposely set out to hurt you, they did what they knew to do at the time. They may have even been doing the best they could at the time. Write a letter to every person you have not yet forgiven. Ask a friend to pretend to be that person and listen to all you have to say. Talk it out with yourself. Do what you have to do in a safe way. 

10. See it, speak it, be it!!! 

You can take any issue still hiding out in your emotional baggage (see Ericka’s article, Are You Masking Your Success? for a full explanation of your emotional baggage) and walk it through these steps and you will be released from it. The best way is to think through the steps and then write them down to get them out. Once you write them down, do something with them. Burn them. Tear them up. Bury them. Perform some ritual that represents letting it go. I once even went to a stream, ripped up my steps and watched them go downstream. Do whatever it takes to be emotionally free of your barriers to the fearless life you deserve. It is not only possible, it is time.

About the author: Ericka D. Jackson is a Christian Speaker, Author, and Business Coach. She provides individuals, organizations, and churches with the tools to achieve God’s vision for their lives. Visit http://www.erickajackson.com  
for insights, techniques and resources to fulfill your calling.

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   Intimate Conversation with Venesha

Venesha is a 4X Literary Award Winning Author. Her debut novel, Mistress Me, has solidified Venesha’s place within Urban Fiction. With her second release, Notorious, slated for a July release, Venesha is truly creating a platinum buzz about her books. Venesha has spent the last six years as a teacher and presently is a full time writer. She enjoys marketing, promoting, and reading in addition to writing.    

Ella:  Tell us about your passion for writing. Why do you write? What drives you?
I write because it makes me happy. It’s something magical and magnificent about creating a story from beginning to end. I am driven by an intense passion that supersedes the particulars of just simply moving through life and living. I write because God has given me unique experiences throughout my life. I am at a place wherein I can remove myself from the equation and simply zero in on topics that are dear to me.

What makes my writing so unique and exciting to read is the triple threat that it reads as reality with a twist and dab of fiction. Something- that has proven to be a great combination for me. I draw heavily from past experiences good and bad. I take my readers on a journey to places many other writers can never write about accurately because they haven’t been there. It’s one thing to have an imagination and another thing to have an imagination on top of the actual reel to reel experiences and familiarity.

 Ella:  A Legacy is something that is handed down from one period of time to another period of time. Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers...
My writing offers the following legacy to future readers...Each and every one of us has exclusive and matchless experiences as well as encounters. Some we hate while others we adore. In my books I share a lot of my life and those around me near and far. I would like every reader to walk away from my books knowing it is okay to live and love as well as make mistakes. As we move through life we will make mistakes, however understanding those mistakes and getting past them will always be our key to an even greater escapade and adventure. 

Ella:   Where are you from? What is your favorite genre? How did you start your writing journey?
I am from Milwaukee, Wisconsin. My favorite genre is Urban Fiction, however I do adore classic literature as well as self-help books. I started my writing journey without knowing it by journaling after hearing Tyler Perry mention it on Oprah many years ago. Years later my Bishop preached a message and that day I started writing my first book, Mistress Me.

 Ella:  Give us the synopsis of the book being discussed today. 
Notorious invites the reader into the world of publishing as the main character embarks on the ride of her life as she writes a novel. In addition to writing a novel the main character is going through a difficult time in her personal life married to a high profile rapper. Within the pages of Notorious you are given a first class seat into the intricacies, blood, sweat, and tears of urban publishing and the music industry. You get the best of both worlds within the pages of Notorious. Your access has been granted!

Ella: Who are your two main characters and what do you like most about them?
My two main characters in Notorious are Starlett Ray and her husband, Vance. I adore Starlett Ray because without a doubt she is an extension of me many years ago.

I am partial to Vance because he represents a few men that I have had the pleasure of knowing at one point in my life all rolled up into one character. He is not my favorite character, however it wasn’t hard to write about him either. More emotional perhaps.

Ella:  How does this book shape or add value to the reader's life?
Notorious shapes and add value to a reader’s life simply because it gives each reader an in-depth look into the highly guarded world of urban publishing. It takes readers on a journey behind the words, storylines, and editing process. It also introduces the reader to a character with low self-esteem who continues to fight against all odds and shady powder puff folk around her.

Ella:  Ultimately, what do you want readers to gain from your book?
I would like for my readers to know and understand that writing a book and getting it published begins as a dream and can quickly become a reality.

Ella:  Who would this book really "speak to" and why?
Notorious would speak to a wide range of readers across-genres especially those who are interested in writing a book. It would also speak to publishing and music insiders as well. It is also a great and exciting read-mind candy describes it best. 

Ella:  What would you say has been your most significant achievement as a writer?
My most significant achievement so far has to be- understanding the logistics of writing a story by completing two edits with a great editor. I can’t say enough about learning how to become a better writer and storyteller.

Ella:  What advice would you give a new writer?
Continue to work on your craft as well as study and read books, articles, and interviews concerning the industry. No two stories are alike. New authors should know and understand everyone’s journey will be different and that’s okay. Measure your success based on your goals and expectations not another author’s plight. Know that everyone that you encounter will not appreciate your vision because it’s YOUR vision. Listen more than you speak. If you encounter a roadblock don’t give up just find another route and do KIM=KEEP IT MOVING.

Ella:  Name 3 things that it takes to make a successful author, in your opinion?
In my opinion to be a successful author you need to be a great writer, better storyteller, and a shrewd business man or woman. You don’t get what you deserve you get what you negotiate!

Ella:   Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases.
Notorious will be released in July. Mistress Me/THE REMIX is slated to be released towards the end of the year in addition to a surprise project.  

Ella:  Where are you located online?
WWW.URBANBARBIEDOLL.COM

To order Mistress Me by Venesha please go to Amazon.com
 

Notorious by Venesha will be available for pre-order on Amazon.com June 16, 2009 and available for delivery on or before July 14, 2009.

 


Intimate Conversation with Robin R. Robinson

Robin R. Robinson was born in Sacramento, California and she moved to LA in 1980 to pursue a career in front of the camera. She lived in LA for 17 years and returned to northern California in the summer of 2000. While living in LA she worked for Eddie Murphy Productions, Keenen Wayans, Wing Records, Sony Pictures, ABC and Motown Productions. Robin was one of 15 selected out of a field of 300 plus to attend the prestigious Guy Hanks/Marvin Miller Screenwriting class at USC where she developed a comedy pilot as well as spec scripts. Robin has been journaling since she was 12 years old and has been an avid reader since she was 8 years old. Robin reads at least 2 novels a month.

WHY DO YOU WRITE? WHAT DRIVES YOU?
I write because it's a very easy way to express myself on paper and it comes easy to me. I don't have any problems expressing myself orally; however, writing allows me to imbue characters with traits that I possess or have read about, and it allows me to be more bold. Some of the things that Renee says in my novel, I wouldn't dream of saying; at least not now - 15 years ago yes, but not right now. I've mellowed a bit so I'm not as raunchy.

But I can go there if I have to. Good dialogue that believable, funny, and very conversational is what drives me. I believe dialogue should be written the way that people speak. At least that's what I attempt to convey in my writings.

WHAT LEGACY DO YOU OFFER FUTURE READERS:
I believe that my writing is a continuation of the extremely talented, down to earth, ain't taking no mess, author Terry McMillan. I remember reading Waiting to Exhale and saying often that "I really like the way she writes, it reminds me a lot of my writing style."   My book would appeal to most women, most races, who have been scorned by a man that they thought was "the one." Any woman who has (had) body image issues, hair issues and who has lived in a city would relate as well. Also, the book is very funny and most of us enjoy laugh out loud humor.


INTRODUCE US TO CHOCOLATE LEMONS AND PEPPERMINT TEARS: The Bittersweet Life of Xena
Imagine if you will an attractive, successful, never been married black woman in her mid-30's who lives in one of the biggest cities in the world; yet, she is desperately trying to unwrap her brain around Adam, a man (who lives almost 400 miles away) - a married one at that who ripped her heart out of her chest, threw it to the ground and then stomped on it. Xena Quay Vaughan is a strong, determined, ain't taking no prisoners, very cerebral, sho 'nuff sister who wears a short 'fro in a city full of women who buy their hair. Xena also secretly wants Adam to come back in her life (but she would never admit it), she wants to shed 10-15 pounds that nobody can see except for her, and she wants to meet a wonderful, handsome, sexy black man who loves her - faults and all - so that she won't have to grow old alone, which is a big fear of hers.

Readers, this story is relatable on so many levels because:
-- There are so many successful, attractive black women who have never been married.

-- There are many black women who harbor distorted body images - especially if they live in Los Angeles. A city that is powered by aesthetics - what you look like, who you know, where you live, what you drive, who you're ballin'.

-- There are many black women who wear their hair in a natural style (braids, twists, fro) who sometimes feel invisible by (some) men who pay sisters who buy their hair way more attention. Some black men prefer black women to have hair that moves. Some black men feel that women who wear their hair in a short 'fro are gay. I think that misguided belief is not only juvenile; it's ludicrous to boot.

WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE A NEW WRITER?

I tell folks who have asked me about writing the same thing:
A new writer has to read - a lot. I read at least 2 novels a month; as well as magazines, newspapers, the net, etc. Reading is very important. And I also suggest keeping a journal (I've been journaling since I was 12). I also read auto-bios, some self-help and some non-fiction, although, I prefer fiction.

WHAT BOOK ALREADY PUBLISHED IS SIMILAR TO YOUR BOOK IN ITS WRITING STYLE?
I absolutely love The Coldest Winter Ever by Sister Souljah and I think my book has a bit of that flavor. Also, Waiting to Exhale by Terry McMillan and I also think Lolita Files' latest, Murder, Lies, Sex, Fame has a similar tone. No nonsense, good dialogue, the sense that you don't want to put the book down, and the fact that you laugh out loud.

WHERE CAN WE BUY THE BOOK?
Chocolate Lemons and Peppermint Tears: The Bittersweet Life of Xena (Xpress Yourself Publishing, LLC; ISBN-10: 0981809421 and ISBN-13: 978-0981809427) is now available on www.Amazon.com

Visit my website: www.robinrrobinson.com
You may also get more information at the publisher's website: http://www.xpressyourselfpublishing.org/xyphome.htm
 


  Who Is He To You by Monique D. Mensah

Simone, a shockingly beautiful teen, is on the downward spiral of destruction as she battles incest and self-hatred and she finds cutting to be the only way to relieve her pain. Jessica lives the upscale lifestyle of a refined society matron. She strives to be the perfect wife, but without her husband, Ross, she would be nothing more than the abused stripper he rescued 16 years ago. Ryan, a fiery thirty-something, is quickly slipping into depression and prescription drug addiction as her boyfriend, Anthony, artfully dangles the empty promise of marriage.

As the shattered lives of three very different women collide, they find that they have one thing in common: they are all in a desperate fight to hang onto love. Experience their emotional journey through to the shocking end where these women will experience injury, imprisonment and even death while crafting new lives from the ashes of their ruination.

Monique D. Mensah
is a native Detroiter with an innate love for the written word. Her talent for writing was first discovered by her third grade teacher when she declared her dream to become a published author. After earning a Bachelor’s Degree from the University of Michigan she completed her first manuscript, Who Is He To You. Shortly after, she launched Kisa Publishing and published her debut novel. Monique now resides in Southfield, MI where she is raising her daughter and working full-time as an enrollment counselor for a private university. She is also a freelance copywriter and copyeditor and is currently working on her second novel.

Monique D. Mensah, Author of Dramatic Fiction
ISBN: 978-0-578-02348-9
Blog: www.moniquedmensah.wordpress.com
Website: http://www.moniquedmensah.com

 



Intimate Conversation with
Dominique LeSane

 

 

Dominique LeSane is the author of the sexy new series "The Housewife Diaries". She pens mystery and erotic short stories that leave her readers panting for more! A native of Baltimore, MD, Dominique LeSane now calls the Dirty South her home. Dominique loves to share her gift of writing with her readers. 

Ella:  Tell us about your passion for writing. What drives you? What impact do you want your book to make?

I have so many friends with such interesting lives. People are always offering me their stories to tell. I love to read, so I'm driven to write the kind of stories that would keep me interested and entertained. I want my readers to be entertained and make sure they come back for more!

  

Ella:  Introduce us to your books, The Seven Year Itch and The Housewife Diaries Series. 

The Housewife Diaries series is three parts. Each tells the story of a woman who is faced with making decisions about herself and facing the true questions about her marriage and how to still maintain her independence. The Housewife Diaries Series features women who are struggling to keep their marriages together and who also have to find who they are as individuals in the process. 

 

The Seven Year Itch introduces us to Dara and Isaiah Moore. Isaiah and Dara Moore have all the creature comforts that life can afford, but as they reach year seven in their marriage, they realize their perfect life is missing an essential ingredient: sex. They are also missing another integral key in their marriage- passion. Dara and Isaiah Moore, a couple who are in love with each other, but find that the passion is gone, after spending too much time trying to mesh their schedules and to make time for each other. They pull out all the stops to bring the passion back to their marriage.  Isaiah whisks Dara away for their anniversary to a place he believes will re-ignite the spark, but when they arrive at the location, will Dara be game?

Ella:  What issues in today's society have you addressed in your books? 

Marriage and most importantly finding a balance between living and loving.

 

Ella:  What inspired you to write The Seven Year Itch and The Housewife Diaries Series?

 I'm married and I know that it takes time and patience and effort on both the wife and husband's part to keep a marriage together. You both have your independent lives, and your lives together and you have to find a way to make that work.
 

Ella:  What did you hope to accomplish by writing The Seven Year Itch?

To show a woman that wants to keep her marriage. She didn't step out on her husband when things weren't going right. She did what it took to keep them together.

 

Ella:  Are your characters in both books from the portrayal of real people?

They could be. I think that's why people relate to it so well.

 

Ella:  What writers inspire you and why?

Fern Michaels, Danielle Steel- these ladies have so many stories that they tell and so many readers that they reach. I would like to do the same with my growing audience

 

Ella: Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers...

 The chance to experience romance and passion which is timeless


Ella:  What can we expect from you in the future?

Sugar and Spice- coming Fall 2009!!!   Dominique LeSane is the newest writer on the Blue Planet Publishing roster. I'm so excited about finding a home for my full length stories. Stay tuned on Lady Leo because there will be more short stories to come!   Lady Leo Publishing:  http://www.ladyleopublishing.org/home.html     

 

Visit her at www.dominiquelesanestories.com  or email her at dominique.lesane@yahoo.com 

Available at the following online bookstores: 

Powells.com

Blish.com

Ebookmall.com

Fictionwise.com

Booksonboard.com

eBooksAboutEverything.com

 

 


Intimate Conversation with Lynetta Marlin


Lynetta Marlin, mother, wife, and decorated Desert Storm veteran began her journey of writing at the very young age of twelve and after serving many years in the military, she decided now would be the time to release and show her many dreams.

Ella: Introduce us to your book An Image of Imperfection, the message and the main characters. 
Is perfect love or the perfect life even possible? Trechelle Young wonders if her marriage will hold this perfect love. However, her commitment to family is stronger than her husband’s, and Trechelle’s hope for the perfect family quickly fades away. The fairy tale she always desired is gone and now she’s left with the realities of life.
After fifteen years of mistrusting her husband, Ralph, Trechelle is tired of holding on for better days. To even the score, she indulges in a few hot and steamy interludes with Frank Henry, Ralph’s partner and friend. Will she move on to fulfilled days and promises of happiness with Frank? Or will she put the Young’s family image back together again?

Find out what happens in An Image of Imperfection, where readers will indulge in self-esteem issues on top of betrayal. As the story weaves its tale of deceit and lust, readers will come to understand that the breaking point is different for every person, and wonder what their final straw would be.

Ella: What inspired you to write this story, An Image of Imperfection? 
My name is Lynetta Marlin; my debut book is called “an Image of Imperfection.” I began writing around the age of 10 to escape such a troubled and abusive life and enter a life of creativity and peace. My writing enabled me to escape to a serene life that I made-believe to be true. I love writing today more than ever because it still gives me the opportunity to escape. The times have changed for me in a positive way but sometimes the revisit of old pain resurface and to escape I love to write a new story. I have only self- published one book so far but wrote five. 

Ella: Are your characters from the portrayal of real people? 
An Image of Imperfection is a fictional book but some of the story line is built on truth. I wrote the story to let out a part that had dug deep into my heart and hurt me for so many years. In this story a talk about a woman who has to take care of children, a cheating husband, friends, family, and her self and still be strong and mighty. The pretense of nothing bothers her has to be held in front of so many people and she has weakened and allowed another man to see her pain. She does have a feeling that her husband has strayed but she doesn’t know how far and the question is with whom? I desire readers to get the story especially women, and decide if their pretense in life is worth a life time of pain or will they say I am more than just a side item forced to be in the front to cover, even my husband, facades in life. I want readers to say enough is enough and become real with their self and others. 

Ella: A Legacy is something that is handed down from one period of time to another period of time. Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... 
The legacy of strong black women has already been laid down for many women today and I try and touch on that continued legacy and say “women we can still be strong with boundaries. It’s okay to say no more pain and be happy with life.” I feel like women have life harder than men many times and as they push forward there are five hands pushing them backwards yet we have to press and many do just that. I served in the United States Navy and this is where I found the pressure of women having to do more and be more with more put on them. 

Ella:  Did you self-publish? What genre is the book?
An Image of Imperfection is self-published completed 67,324 word erotica novel that’s set in the suburbs of Atlanta , Georgia . This story is targeted at the strong yet naïve black woman who believe in love and main focus is on making their family the prime priority, while their supposed blameless cheating husbands desire them, their friends, and men. 

Trechelle Young is a believer in love and at all cost she wanted the life that romance story novels proposed as ideal. When she tackles the battle of (Ralph Young) husband, children, and happily ever after she finds that there are at least two different directions in which her marriage is traveling and the desires of her heart are not on the route. As multiple disappearing acts take premier and suspected marital flings arise Trechelle is faced with doubts of her marriage stronghold. She discovers Ralph’s infidelities might not stop at just women and is thrown into fear of knowing the truth. When Frank Henry (Ralph’s partner) notices a damsel in distress in Trechelle and hurries to aid and see to her every need, will she take the bait and enter into a life altering experience or will she stay in her troublesome marriage and piece her family image together again? 

Ella:  What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book? 
Issues of down-low men, adultery, real or fake church-life, rearing of children in a complicated home where the children could suspect something, friendships and their true meanings, and death plus after-life are present in this novel. My book is a an erotic novel because it is another part of me that I enjoy delve ling into and bringing forward without being loud and upfront with my most intimate thoughts. This is another life I can disappear into and have happiness. 

Ella:  What writers inspire you and why? 
Zora Neale Hurston, Langston Hughes, Maya Angelou, Mary B. Morrison, Tina Brooks McKinney, Wahida Clark, Michael Baisden, Kimberly Sims, Thomas Green, E. Lynn  Harris, Erica Lewis, Anita Bunkley, Omar Tyree, and many new comers are some authors that I love and are influenced by. They all have different styles to me and have different lessons to learn from their books and they are entertaining. 

Ella:  Share with us your latest news or upcoming book releases. 
My upcoming book is called “A crucial decision” which is a follow up to “An Image of Imperfection.”

An Image of Imperfection by Lynetta Marlin
ISBN: 9781587368714

Buy the book here


Intimate Conversation with GStarr

Somewhat obsessed with fabricating stories that usually got her in big trouble as a child GStarr is now able to keep the stories going for a profit. Born in her native country of Panama author GStarr is the co-founder of UrbanL Publishing in Queens, New York. Inspired by the late E. Lynn Harris and bestselling author Eric Jerome Dickey, GStarr’s first novel Pulling Me Back is a story about the discovery of lesbian love between best friends. 

Ella: Where did you get the idea and inspiration to write Pulling Me Back?
My inspiration for writing Pulling Me Back a novel that centers around two women beginning a lesbian romance in the midst of everyday issues was inspired by reading Eric Jerome Dickey’s Friends and Lovers and E. Lynn Harris’ Just As I Am. I genuinely enjoyed the books for different reasons. Eric’s novel dealt with the essence of friendship and the dynamic among different personalities, E. Lynn Harris’ novel was a trailblazer for introducing avid readers to characters living within the lesbian and gay communities. The idea of infusing subject matters from my two favorite authors seemed to be an untapped niche. I was tired of reading the urban fiction novels with so much drug crimes and gold digger related plots. 

Ella: Introduce us to your book, Pulling Me Back.
What makes the picture perfect working girl go from being with a man to being with a woman? In Pulling Me Back Bre Morgan learns that her beloved honey is not the faithful hardworking man that she thought he was. He may be hard working as a celebrity bodyguard, but he’s diligent at keeping his “other life” a secret. A heartbroken Bre learns turns to a night of drinking and partying with her closest friends including Jordan Powers her lesbian BFF after learning who Sean Hunter really is—a cheating bastard. 

Throwing caution to the wind Bre makes an overt pass at Jordan, who chooses to ignore it the first time it happens. When a sexual pass comes Jordan’s way a second time, she indulges in her best friend and the two embark on a closeted, insane ride of bliss, pain and confusion that neither can seem to navigate. 

Pulling Me Back is a novel that satisfies a dire need for erotic, alternative lifestyle story telling. In the midst of family feuds and broken hearts can two women find true love beyond the mayhem that life has thrown their way? 

Ella: Are your characters from the portrayal of real people?

The main characters all have bits and pieces of parts of the girl I used to be and the woman I am today. 

Ella: Tell us about your passion for writing. Why do you write? What drives you? What impact do you want your book to make on the readers?
I write because ever since I was child I would make up stuff. I would just talk and fiction would always come out, I think the fiction was more entertaining to me than telling the truth. It’s been said that I’m always in my own world—daydreaming and contemplating life and scenarios better than the reality we have before us. I have "mini- movies" going on in my head, so a new author I plan to share these visions with my followers. 

My passion comes from always having a story to tell. I really do enjoy making things up and having control of all fates of my characters—what they do, where they live, who they hook up with, where they travel, etc. That kind of control is fun—even if it’s only in fiction. 

Ella: As an author, what is your writing process? How long did it take to  finish Pulling Me Back? 
I received a laptop for a birthday gift. Once I knew I wanted to write Pulling Me Back I would carry my laptop with me everywhere. I would type during the roundtrip bus ride to and from work and on my lunch break. Any extra downtime was used to get this book typed up. Once I got started, I just couldn’t stop. It took a total of 5 months to complete. Writing Pulling Me Back was a new goal in my life and I’m glad I can check it off my list. This is just the beginning for GStarr. 

Ella: What is your most valuable lesson about the publishing industry? 
So far the most valuable lesson that I’ve learned from being in publishing is-- a book won’t sell itself. A great book does not make for great book sales, unless the author, especially a new one is willing to get out there and meet the people, sell yourself and your product. It is my job to form a fan base and let people know what I have to offer. The marketing aspect of publishing is very important. 

Ella: What issues in today's society have you addressed in the book?
An important topic among today’s generation that I cover in Pulling Me Back is --being gay. One of the characters, Jordan is openly gay to everyone who knows her, except her parents who just refuse to believe it. Her mom keeps wanted her to get a man and her father doesn’t choose to discuss it at all. When Jordan let’s her family know that her being a lesbian is who she is and they must except that things get ugly. This happens in so many households across America. It’s sad that acceptance can sometimes come from outsiders before your own family. E. Lynn Harris was a role model to me and I respect his writing and his creativity, but more importantly I admired him for being a trailblazer and opening the door for myself and authors to write about the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) demographic. You will still find, love lust, lies, happiness, sadness, etc in Pulling Me Back, I hope to pick up where the late E. Lynn Harris left off. 

Website: www.urbanlpublishing.com. To connect with the author via social media send friend requests to: www.downelink.com/UrbanLPublishing ; www.twitter.com/urbanlpublish ; www.myspace.com/urbanlpublishing 

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                          Intimate Conversation with Vanessa Miller 

Vanessa Miller of Dayton, Ohio, is a best-selling author, playwright, and motivational speaker. To date, Vanessa has completed the Rain and Storm Series. 

She is currently working on the Forsaken series, Second Chance at Love series and a single title, Long Time Coming. These books have received rave reviews, winning Best Christian Fiction Awards and topping numerous Bestseller’s lists. 

Ella Curry: Tell us about your passion for writing. Why do you write? What drives you?
VM: I write because I believe that this is my calling in life. I truly believe that God gifted me with the ability to write stories that touch the hearts of readers, so I’m doing God’s will every time I put pen to paper. 

Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... 
VM: I hope the stories I write bring hope to my readers and help them to understand that God is a forgiving God – all they need to do is turn around and fall back into His loving arms. So I would say: My writing offers a legacy or (knowledge) of redemption. 

Please introduce us to the  book being discussed, Forsaken. 
VM: Forsaken is about a fallen preacher’s journey back to God. This book is not just another novel about mouth dropping sin in the pulpit. The goal of Forsaken is to show readers that true repentance touches the heart of God. When JT discovers that his sins have caused him to be forsaken by God, he decides that, although he has sinned, he loves God too much to walk away. And that’s when the drama begins. J

What is your favorite genre? How did you start your writing journey?
VM: My favorite genre is Christian fiction, I also love thrillers. I have been writing sense I was a kid. I can’t remember a time I didn’t have pen and paper in my hands. 

Who are the main characters in your latest novel? Tell us a little about them.
VM: Pastor Jerome Tyler (JT) Thomas and his wife Cassandra are the main characters of FORSAKEN. In the book the reader will discover two characters who started off their ministry in love with each other and God, but when tragedy struck, they fell away from each other and God. Now JT and Cassandra must fight their way back to God and each other.

Ultimately, what do you want readers to gain from your book?
VM: The knowledge that family is important and that husbands and wives should do everything possible to preserve that unity. But I also want them to understand that God is a forgiving God.

Who would this book really "speak to" and why?
VM: Any one who has ever made a mistake and thought that they would never be forgiven. I also would love for fallen pastors and ministers to read Forsaken.

What advice would you give a new writer? 
VM: If I were advising someone who wanted to write, I would first suggest that they figure out why they want to write. Is it because they think they will make a lot of money? Or is it because writing is in their blood and he/she doesn’t know what they’ll do if they don’t write – then go after your dreams, write every day and network with other writers. But understand that most writers don’t earn enough money to do this thing full-time, but they keep doing it, because they love the written word.

Name 3 things that it takes to make a successful author, in your opinion?
VM: PERSISTENCE! PERSISTENCE! PERSISTENCE!

What can we expect from you in the future?
VM: I have four new books releasing in 2010. April 2010 – Yesterday’s Promise; June 2010 – Forgiven; October 2010 – Tomorrow’s Promise; November 2010 – Long Time Coming

Vanessa Miller, Essence Bestselling Author
FORSAKEN in stores October 1, 2009 - the story of a fallen preacher's journey back to God. 

http://www.vanessamiller.com  
http://www.anointedauthorsontour.com 
http://www.myspace.com/vmiller1  
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                                    Intimate Conversation with LaCricia A`ngelle

LaCricia A`ngelle is a licensed Evangelist, writer, and the President of His Pen Publishing. A native of Chicago, LaCricia currently resides in Tennessee with her four children. As a Christian Fiction author, LaCricia not only writes for entertainment, but she also writes for ministry. Her goal in every piece of written work is to draw someone closer to Christ. 

Ella:  How did you start your writing journey?
I am originally a native of Chicago, however I settled in Tennessee several years ago. My favorite genre is Christian Fiction. I am very impressed with how many Christian Fiction authors are stepping out of the box and writing about topics that are relevant to today’s time. I started my writing journey as a child by writing poetry and songs.

Ella:  Tell us about your passion for writing. Why do you write? What drives you?
I write first and foremost for ministry. Through my writing I not only minister to others but I minister to myself as well. In addition to ministry, I write for entertainment. I enjoy going back over some of the things I have written to see my thoughts on paper. I am driven by my desire to set a good example for my children. My writing offers me the opportunity to show my children that although my original plans/goals for my life were not achieved, I was able to dream new dreams and to become successful doing it.

Ella:  Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... 
Forgiveness is a choice. When we choose not to forgive, we harm ourselves much more than those we choose not to forgive.

Ella:  Introduce us to your new book, Girl Naw!.
What happens when the window becomes a mirror. Antoinette Walker is good at helping other women resolve their issues but her closet isn’t free from skeletons. Girl, Naw! takes you on Antoinette’s journey of ridding her bed of roses of the thorns that continue to prick her heart. Forgiving others will only be part of her struggle. 

Ella:  Ultimately, what do you want readers to gain from your book?
Ultimately, I hope readers will gain from Girl, Naw! strength to move past the emotional scars that have paralyzed them. It is my prayer that readers will gain more compassion for others that are going through various things in life, because we never really know what someone else is truly facing.

Ella:  Who would this book really "speak to" and why?
Girl, Naw! speaks to hurting people. It opens the door to forgiveness, and ushers in the healing process. I also believe Girl, Naw! speaks to individuals both male and female who are in a position of authority where people depend on them a lot for various reasons. Girl, Naw! shows its readers, they are not alone. Some of the very trials and tests they are facing there are others going through it as well.

Ella:  What would you say has been your most significant achievement as a writer? 
My most significant achievement as a writer has been having readers contact me both in person and via email and tell me the impact Girl, Naw! has made in their lives. I will never forget the time I was doing an interview about Girl, Naw! and a woman in the audience shed tears after hearing an excerpt from the book. The section that was read touched on something she was going through.

Ella:   What advice would you give a new writer? 
I would advise a new writer to persevere. New writers will often have their confidence challenged. It is important to take your time and put out a good product. Don't allow yourself to become overwhelmed with unrealistic deadlines. I would also advise a new writer to take advantage of all of the resources that are available such as writers' workshops, and online writers' groups that focus on the genre in which they are writing. Finally, I would advise a new writer to read books that are compatible to what they are writing.

Ella:  What can we expect from you in the future?
In the future readers can expect to see more life altering stories from LaCricia A`ngelle. Stories that show characters overcoming tough obstacles by the power of God. You can also expect to see more authors realizing their publishing dreams through His Pen Publishing. Most importantly Expect the Unexpected.

www.lacriciaangelle.com 
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Intimate Conversation with Jacquelin Thomas

Jacquelin Thomas is an award winning, bestselling author with over 30 titles in print. Her books have garnered several awards, including two EMMA awards, the Romance In Color Reviewers Award, Readers Choice Award, and the Atlanta Choice Award in the Religious & Spiritual category. She was a 2008 NAACP Image Award nominee and was given the 2008 Career Achievement Award by Romantic Times Magazine. She is happily married to her best friend and is the proud mother of three children. Jacquelin and her family live in North Carolina.

Ella:  Tell us about your passion for writing. Why do you write? What drives you?
I write because I don’t know how NOT to write. I have been writing since I was in the third grade and its how I got through those years of being extremely shy. In writing, I have the ability to control everything—something we don’t have in the real world. I love being able to make someone smile, lift someone’s spirits or just entertain with my stories. I love it and can’t see doing anything else in my life outside of serving God. 

Ella:  A Legacy is something that is handed down from one period of time to another period of time. Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... 
My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... entertaining stories of flawed individuals whose weaknesses become their greatest strengths. 

Ella:  Where are you from? What is your favorite genre? How did you start your writing journey?
I live in North Carolina. My favorite genres are mystery, romance and Christian Fiction. I love them all equally. 

I’ve been writing since I was in the third grade—I was painfully shy growing up, so writing became my outlet. However, I would never submit anything and it wasn’t until I was pregnant with my third child that I decided to finally ‘test’ the publishing waters. I wrote a novel titled Hidden Blessings and submitted it to Kensington Publishing. Monica Harris was the editor at the time and she purchased it in 1997. The book came out in 98’, was adapted into a BET television movie and I’ve been writing ever since. I have over 30 books in print today. 

Ella:  Introduce us to your new book The Ideal Wife.
THE IDEAL WIFE is the story of a woman whose husband wants her to embrace the swinging lifestyle and her quest to make her marriage work without dishonoring God and her husband. The book offers the reader a glimpse into the lifestyle of a “Christian swinger.” The story will also challenge reader’s beliefs on whether swinging or wife-swapping is considered adultery. I ran across an article that said that sixty-eight percent of swingers consider themselves Christian, which inspired the writing of this story. 

Ella:  Who are your two main characters? Favorite things about them?
Jana and Lawrence are the main characters in The Ideal Wife. I love that Jana knows who she is in Christ and stands her ground with her husband, despite her love for him. Lawrence is likeable because he’s not out to hurt Jana—he loves God, but truly believes that there is nothing wrong with the swinging lifestyle. His pastor is a swinger, so how can it be so bad? 

Ella:  How does this book shape or add value to the reader's life?
The Ideal Wife is written to entertain, but also to educate. I make no attempt to pass judgment or tell couples what they should do behind closed doors. I simply want the story to open the door for discussion. I believe Jana is a wonderful role model for women, in that she loves Lawrence, but she is not willing to do something she considers immoral. 

Ella:  Ultimately, what do you want readers to gain from your book?
I would like readers to gain understanding that you can’t just accept someone else’s word over what the Bible says. You have to search the Word for yourself and ask God to give you wisdom and understanding, because scriptures are oftentimes manipulated to suit someone’s purpose. 

Ella:  Who would this book really "speak to" and why?
It should be to everyone. Sex is a gift from God and unfortunately, it’s become perverted by the world. Intimacy between a husband and wife is special and I think you have to be careful. I want my relationship with my husband to honor God because He is also a part of our marriage. Again, the book speaks to everyone and will provoke discussions between married couples and singles alike. 

Ella:  What would you say has been your most significant achievement as a writer? 
Being nominated for a 2008 NAACP Image Award for Divine Confidential. I found out the day that I buried my father that I had been nominated, so it was bittersweet. 

Ella:   What advice would you give a new writer? 
When writing your first draft—just write and don’t worry about how it reads. Finish the story before going back over to revise and don’t compare your work to other authors. 

Ella:  Name 3 things that it takes to make a successful author, in your opinion?
1. Putting pen to paper. Writers write!

2. Be willing to accept that you don’t know everything there is to know about writing and that your editor is there to help make your story shine.

3. Read books on the craft of writing and read just for fun when you’re not working on a project.

Ella:  Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases.
The Ideal Wife will be in stores October 6, 2009, Teach Me Tonight will also be in stores in October, and Split Ends (Young Adult) will be released December 29, 2009.



Intimate Conversation with Venom Patton

Born and raised in Niagara Falls, New York, Venom Patton was introduced to the world of writing as early as the eighth grade. She expressed herself through journals and diaries over the years until one day she decided to take one of her journals to the next level. Her debut novel "I Can Go to Hell by Myself!" is a journal entry transformed into a masterpiece that many can identify with. It encourages you to indulge in the life of the main character Decadent, and to see life through her eyes. Venom's writings are a combination of life as she views it through the eyes of others and her creative imagination. Her purpose is to inspire, motivate and challenge her readers to look beyond the obvious and judge reality. 

Venom is a graduate of Clark Atlanta University with a BA in Political Science, and also holds a Master of Science in Criminal Justice from the University of Wisconsin-Milwaukee. She currently resides in Atlanta, GA where is working on her second novel which continues the story of Decadent and the journey she takes through life. 

Ella:  Where are you from? How did you start your writing journey?  What drives you? 
I am from Niagara Falls, NY and I started writing in 1989, at least that was my first dated journal entry. My writing journey was about me expressing myself emotionally. I did not necessarily share my writings with others; however, my writings often influence my reactions. I have evolved in this journey as I have turned some of these writing into blogs, novels and I still keep a personal prayer and general journal to reflect.
 
My passion for writing comes for my inability to express my emotions verbally. I would often have to write my thoughts down in order to get across to people and be understood. I have been writing and keeping journals since 1989. These journals, some personal and other I share allow me to express my emotional side. My passion is not just for the love of the art but the ability to express myself explicitly without barriers.

Ella:  Let's me introduce your book, I Can Go to Hell By Myself, to the Black Pearl family.
"I Can Go to Hell By Myself"-- Compiling numerous stories Venom has come across in her experiences as a social worker, her novel is a work of fiction that tells the story of the main character, Decadent, who uses her gift to trap anyone that crosses her path into her web of sexual seduction. Decadent entices one too many people when she finally meets her match, reality. She becomes a victim of karma and finds herself wrapped up in a fight for her life.

"I Can Go to Hell By Myself" is not just another tale of a young girl battling the challenges of life. Instead, Venom Patton creates a masterpiece that challenges the reader to look through the eyes of Decadent, experience some of the events that she encounters, recognize those things that seem familiar and then judge accordingly.
Inspiring, motivating, and challenging, "I Can Go to Hell By Myself" is a must read. ISBN: 978-0-615-21743-7\

Ella:  What was your motivation in crafting I Can Go To Hell By Myself?
In my professional career I have encountered so many people who thrive on negativity. Negativity about people, themselves, within their behaviors and life in general. The often are cynical and look at the world in a "what can you do for me" mentality. "I Can Go To Hell By Myself! "focuses on those negative behaviors. We can blame the entire world but at the end of the day we have to answer for our behaviors. 

My main character, Decadent is one of these people. She has a lot going for herself but would rather play the victim than take responsibility for her actions. We see this all the time in our families and communities, as we try to support those who have been wronged but eventually their cry of "woe is me" will cause those intended to encourage them to walk away.  Just like many people in society today, Decadent chooses the wrong friends and loves the man who loves himself more. All the time she alienates her family and the gifts of God. Decadent for a long time feels like I can do this and I don't need any advice but when she reaches for help it may be too late.

I don't want to give too much away but you will see a lot of inspirational messages as well how some of the characters personalities match their name meanings. I am also a big fan of William Shakespeare and I have even made my own little twist of the Othello tragedy. I also give you the story strictly from Decadent's point of view, you feel what she feels, and you think how she thinks. If Decadent is mad at someone, you have no choice to be mad at them as well. No other opinion matters but that of Decadent's and you will almost find yourself becoming her.

Ella: Introduce us to your main characters. Why did you create this story now?
Decadent Indulgence Vincent-Allen is the main character of "I Can Go To Hell By Myself! "her name alone causes her behave in a certain manner. Athena and Nathanial are the fighters and supporters of Decadent. While, I will let you make your own conclusion of Maurice and Kennedy.

I created this novel because of a need I had to express my dealings with people from my professional life. I have heard many stories of despair and victimization. However, it is how you overcome this issues that make us who we are. I have listened to some horrific things and I wanted people to read and be able to identify with someone besides a "hustler" or drug addict.

Ella:  What is the most surprising thing you have learned from the community? 
 I have been surprised by some of the responses I have gotten so far. I have actually had people tell me that could not read it anymore because they had similar experiences and others became more aware of their surroundings. There were some who were offended and did not want to read and that too is understandable. I want the community to recognize that there are silent issues that people face and if you are one of those people you are not alone.

After reading the book as a reader instead of the writer. I realized how much emotion I have in me. In Nathanial I poured my love into him and I think I surprised myself of how much I could actually love and show it.

Ella:  Ultimately, what do you want readers to gain from your book?
I want them to gain a joy for reading. If they don't learn anything from the book at least they have read it. We are at a time in which we want everything instantly. If I can't get it one DVD then I don't want it. So I want the community to get back into the habit of reading and although this is not a book for children, as the children observe adults reading then they will be encouraged to do the same. Then I want them to gain awareness for things that can happen to people as a youth that ultimately translates to their behavior as an adult.

Ella:  What would you say has been your most significant achievement with this book?
"I Can Go To Hell By Myself!" has opened so many doors for me. I have met so many different people through this journey and had the opportunity to share and inspire. I have inspired myself to continuously be a blessing to those that read and support this journey. This alone is an achievement above all others.

Ella:  Finish this sentence- My writing offers the following legacy to future readers... 
My writing offers the following legacy to future readers in that it gives those that are struggling hope. Although my novel is fiction it gives readers the opportunity to relate and hopefully redirect themselves in a positive manner. This is not saying that all readers will have experienced something negative or traumatic in their lives but I hope to always offer a spirit of reflection, redemption, restoration and rejuvenation.

Ella:  What can we expect from you in the future?
I hope to definitely write more books, continue to blog and advance into a motivational speaker by using my passion and profession to encourage the youth. I am definitely looking into becoming a household name but as I continue to advance in this career my interactions with the community evolve as well. So I cannot clearly tell you how the future looks but I know I am definitely moving up in it. I am expecting my next novel "It's Not Always About Me" out in November 2009 just in time for Christmas. I will also be doing some video blogging as well as supporting and encouraging other potential writers to get their stories out.

Visit the author online:
Website: http://www.venompattonbooks.com 
Myspace: www.myspace.com/venompattonbooks 
Shelfari: www.shelfari.com/venompattonbooks 
Radio: www.blogtalkradio.com/Venom-Patton 
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Venom-Patton/89745894338 



Intimate Conversation with Lorraine Elzia

Lorraine Elzia is a free and gentle, flower growing wild. An author wild in her thoughts and chasing her dreams. With stories in the Chicken Soup for the Soul series; and The Triumph of My Soul Anthology, Lorraine makes her solo writing debut with Mistress Memoirs, living up to the saying, “Why blend in when you are born to stand out?” 

Ella:  My passion for writing:
Before being published, my writing consisted mainly of long emails in response to the simplest of questions or thoughts directed my way. At the time, I labeled my rants and raves “ADQ’s” (A Deeva Quickies), entitled in recognition of my alter ego (A Deeva) who was writing them. On one occasion, after reading one of my ADQ’s, a friend jokingly said to me that they thought I had The Midnight Disease. I had no clue what that meant, so I Googled it and part of the definition (the part I’ll own) says that The Midnight Disease refers to someone who has hypergraphia, or the overwhelming urge to write. Someone with this condition has uncontrollable impulses to express themselves through the written word. I resemble that definition! Writing is the driver of the vehicle that is me.

Ella:  What impact do you want your book to make on the readers? 
I want my readers to walk away having experienced an Ah-ha moment—where they can’t help but marinate on the message, even if only through the pages of my book. It is my on-going desire in everything that I write, no matter what the genre, to inspire and motivate others to see the beauty and flaws that resides within all people regardless of the outer shell.

Ella:  Introduce us to your book Mistress Memoirs.
When we hear the word “Mistress”, negative connotations immediately come to mind. Thoughts of sleazy, gold digging, home wreckers bombard our psyche. Meet Kahla, the total opposite of what we expect a “Mistress” to be, yet she is a very real threat to every wifey. Through her memoirs she explains why she’s in the role of “Sloppy Second” with the revelation of “The Me Factor” which is the ultimate symptom to the disease of any affair. Kahla shares her experiences to help us all recognize that when it comes to affairs, we should be less concerned with the “How, When or Where” of an affair, we should concern ourselves with the “Why.”

Ella:  Are your characters from the portrayal of real people? 
The main character, Kahla is one woman who embodies the qualities of about 7 real people. She is not any one person that I know, but her actions and thoughts encompass a recurring theme I heard from friends over the years. I blended them all together, and VOILA…. Kayla was born.

Ella:  What inspired you to write this story? 
Women like to talk, sometimes spilling the beans on things that they probably shouldn’t share, but they do in order to get some advice or guidance. After listening to more than one friend or family member shed many tears over their relationship with a married man, I noticed that in all the cases, regardless of social standing, education or upbringing, they were all in the situation they were in due to the same underlying factors. I wrote Mistress Memoirs to open the eyes of women to the role they play in the situation. 

Ella:  Why did you decide to pick the romance/urban lit genre for your book? 
I did not choose it; it chose me. When writing, I follow where the words lead and worry about categories or genre later. My initial thought was that Mistress Memoirs would be a self-help book, but Kahla began to show her behind by writing erotic and thought-provoking poetry, so I followed her lead. After all…the book is about Her thoughts, so as she spoke, I followed. Much in the same manner that the title leads you to have one impression of the book yet, the story line changes that impression, so too does Kahla’s thoughts venture into a territory of ensuring that you get much more than you expect when you open the cover. I chose this genre being obedient to how my character wanted to come to life.

Ella:  How difficult was it to complete the novel? 
The beginning of Mistress Memoirs was written several years ago. After sending several chapters to an editor, I was told that it needed work. That discouraged me and I put it on the shelf in my closet for several years. Once Peace In The Storm Publishing picked me up, I blew the dust off of my old manuscript and having been ignited with a new fire of inspiration of having “my own” book with ONLY my name on it; I couldn’t stop writing once I started. I had a new passion, and the whole book was written in about 6 months, with no outline and just winging it as I went along. I let Kahla and Kevin tell me where to go, and each spoke to me and when they did, I couldn’t keep up fast enough with them in putting their experience on paper.

Ella:  Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases. 
I am honored to announce that I have been nominated for the 2009 African American Literary Award Show in the category of Break-Out Author of the year. I thank my readers and those that nominated me and humbly ask for your vote for me, my label mates and our publishing company, Peace in the Storm Publishing at www.literaryawardshow.com/voting.html,  I also have begun my next novel, “Ask Nicely and I Might”, which will be released in the spring of 2010. If you thought Kahla was sassy, sexy and intriguing, wait till you get a chance to meet Jade! She’ll leave your mouth wide open, watering in the corners and yearning for more. 

Mistress Memoirs by Lorraine Elzia, available at:
www.peaceinthestormpublishing.com  
www.amazon.com 
www.barnesandnoble.com   
www.lorraineelzia.com 

And local Borders and Walden Book Stores Worldwide



When Lightning Strikes Book Discussion with author Keya

 

Taylor is on the road to happiness and success. She is a gorgeous and classy woman with a thriving career and a wonderful fiancée. One day, Taylor’s near perfect world is turned upside down when she discovers her future husband is cheating.

To make matters worse, while trying to put the pieces of her life back together, she finds out someone at her job has filed a sexual harassment complaint against her. She realizes someone is out to ruin her life. With Taylor’s personal life, profession, and overall reputation at stake, can she overcome it all? Or, will the stress of it all bring out another side of Taylor? See how Taylor reacts When Lightning Strikes.

Book: When Lightning Strikes
ISBN: 9781434393913
Website:   www.keyalit.com
MySpace: www.myspace.com/keyax
 


Main Character's Biographies

Taylor’s Bio: Taylor is young, beautiful, successful, confident and full of life. Taylor is on the road to having everything she has ever dreamed of. She is engaged and currently an advertising executive in her career. Taylor is also naïve and nowhere near ready for the things that are about to happen to her.

My thoughts on Taylor: Although Taylor is my main character, she is not at all my favorite. Her goals and dreams are very admirable, but her actions throughout the story help me to see all of her flaws. In the book, we see that Taylor is not perfect, she gets upset, angry, and the entire time she is trying to make people believe she is stronger than what she actually is. Also, at times she can be very hypocritical of her friends.

Michelle’s Bio: Michelle is a smart, but mentally unstable young woman. She has experienced a lot of pain due to losing loved ones and an unsettling childhood. Since Michelle doesn’t know how to re-direct her energy or how to keep her pain and anger under control she tends to focus her attention on other people and making their lives as miserable as hers.

My thoughts on Michelle: Michelle was my favorite character in the book to create. Even though she had a wicked nature, I felt that she was the most vulnerable in the book. It was quite obvious that she was longing to be loved. Michelle also had a quality of honesty to her to a certain degree that I don’t think any of the other characters had. Everyone knew she was miserable and needed help and she didn’t apologize or try to hide that side of herself.

· Q: Who was your favorite character and why?

A: Michelle was my favorite character because I see so many dimensions to her. In the novel most people see her bad side, but I can also see her vulnerability, ambitiousness, and the need to be loved and accepted.

· Q: Who was your least favorite character and why?

A: Surprisingly, my least favorite character was Taylor. I see her as a bit of a snob, and as a person who is quick to turn on her friends in order to gain the success or things that she wants in life. She is a user.

· Q: Was Taylor a hypocrite?

A: Absolutely! She was the person who hated her boss because he claimed credit for the work that she did, but when she becomes management she does the same thing to her friend, of all people.

· Q: What was your inspiration?
A: When I began writing I was not focusing on just one thing at all. This was purely for therapeutic reasons. I did not know that it would turn into such a wonderful experience.

· Q: Is your next book going to pick up where this one has left off?
A: The next one will definitely have some of the same players in it. I have not decided if it will pick up exactly where this one has left off or if it will be more of a prequel. I am working on developing both ideas now so the decision will come very soon.

· Q: Who would you say is more mentally stable, Taylor or Michelle?
A: I would say that Taylor is more stable mentally than Michelle. Michelle has so many issues that she has problems functioning in a normal atmosphere, Taylor has the potential to become mentally unstable but she is able to function much better in a normal society.

· Q: Why did you choose to make the men in the novel seem so “weak?”
A: I would like to think of them as “good” men rather than “weak” men. There are so many books out there were the African American men are always out to treat women wrong and I wanted to take my book in another direction when it came to the African American men in my story, after all there are some good men in this world.

· Q: Why do you think Taylor’s world began to crash around her?
A: I believe that Taylor’s world starts to spin out of control when she forgets who she is and the people that helped her get there. I believe that karma has played a major part in the chain of events that she is experiencing.

· Q: Why did Michelle target Taylor in your opinion?
A: I believe Michelle targeted Taylor because she (Taylor) was the epitome of what Michelle wanted in life. Michelle was truly envious of Taylor and all of her successes. I believe that the secret that Taylor kept from Michelle just sent her over the edge and gave her more reason to despise Taylor.

· Q: Have you experienced any of the events in your book personally?
A: I have experienced the jealously within the friendship, however it has never been to the extent of Taylor. Other than that everything else in the book is purely fictional.

Author's Bio

Keya, originally from Dallas, Texas is the breakout author of When Lightning Strikes. She attended Stephen F. Austin State University, and is currently pursuing her bachelor’s degree. Keya enjoys reading, music, writing, and spending time with her children, Treyvion and Desirae. She presently resides in Plano, Texas with her family. Keya is very anxious to begin working on the second installment of When Lightning Strikes.


Intimate Conversation with Brenda Hill

Brenda Hill is a native of Maryland , President/Owner of DAP Network and Consulting Services where she specializes in seminars that teach the key to delivering extraordinary customer service consistently and effortlessly. Brenda has more than 20 years of experience providing quality customer service, 10 years of professional Human Resources experience, 10 years of management experience and 6 years of sales experience. Brenda’s passion for improving the treatment of others and her love of writing encouraged her to write Remember What Your MAMAs Taught You, a unique way of looking at customer service.

Ella:  Tell us about your passion for writing. Why do you write? What drives you?
I love writing. I believe it is a gift when you can express yourself clearly on paper and have people not only understand it the way you intended, but to really feel what you are saying. It is like hearing a smile. I feel great when I am writing and I love to help people. Four years ago, I discovered my gift of writing when I lost my only sister and my husband within 4 months of one another. Writing became therapeutic for me. At that time, I started a personal journal that I wrote in every night, writing every feeling I had. As I looked back on certain dates, it helped me to see how far I have come, how happy or sad I was and how much I have grown. In that same year, I completed and published Remember What Your MAMAs Taught You, a unique way of looking at customer service.

Ella:  Give us the synopsis of the book being discussed.
Remember What Your MAMAs Taught You is a humorously entertaining book about customer service that provides invaluable how-to information that will be relevant year after year. This book offers readers a different way of looking at customer service, the way most of our MAMAs taught us many years ago. And, most importantly, it is the only book that contains an easy-to remember key to delivering extraordinary customer service consistently and effortlessly.

Ella:  Finish this sentence: I am Powerful because...
I am Powerful because... I know I am blessed, I am intelligent, strong, kind, resilient, loved and supported by many family and friends.

Ella:  What makes your book stand out and would entice a reader pick it up?
The title, Remember What Your MAMAs Taught You is intriguing to most people. Also, the cover. The cover has 3 silhouettes of women, one holding a baby, one with a suitcase in business attire and one with her hands on her hips standing alone. I chose silhouettes of women doing different things so when people look at the cover they could identify with either silhouette as being their MAMA.

Ella:  What does remembering what your mamas taught you have to do with customer service?
More than people realize. Manners are the number one ingredient to providing quality and extraordinary customer service. As soon as we could speak, most of our MAMAS or a MAMA-like person taught us to always say thank you, please and excuse me. They taught us that being well mannered and respectful was a way of life and something you did automatically. When something is a way of life, it takes little to no effort. So when people remember what their mamas taught them, they begin to remember that way of life. In the book, there is a humorous chapter named Remembering…. that helps people to remember some of their MAMAs most memorable phrases they used to basically teach us how to treat people and some of those phrases we use today to teach our children.

Ella:  The subtitle says, a unique way of looking at customer service. What is so unique about the way you look at customer service as you describe in your book?
What is so unique is that I look at customer service as being something we’ve already been taught many years ago by one of our greatest teachers, our MAMAS. Our customer, clients, members, associates, whatever we call them, they are all people. Unlike other customer service training and books, I define customer service as simply meaning the “way you treat people.” And the way you treat people the majority of the time, whether it is poorly, good, great or extraordinarily is your way of life.

Ella:  What advice would you give a new writer?

First, to ask yourself what is the purpose of your book? Why are you writing it?
Write, Write, Write. Regardless of how it sounds at first, write everything, then go back, and edit. Be patient. Do not force it, write when a thought or idea hits and jot it down quickly.

Ella:  Name 3 things that it takes to make a successful author, in your opinion?
A passion for writing, the ability to be clear and exciting on paper and humor. You have to be able to laugh at yourself.

Ella:  What can we expect from you in the future?
The majority of the books I read and write are usually items that are geared towards helping people, which I will continue to do. In the future, I would really like to co-author with someone on a different type of book, perhaps a novel.

Ella:  Share with us your latest news, awards or upcoming book releases.
DAP Network & Consulting Services, my business, has recently come out with a new product, “Yes, We Want to Hire You. It is a powerful, tell-all on-the-go seminar about extraordinary interviewing. With so much competition for one job, it is not enough for people to only be “good” in an interview; they have to be Extraordinary. This affordable product comes in a CD version and an MP3 version that will help people to maximize their chances of getting multiple job offers. It teaches the ins and outs of extraordinary interviewing, tells what employers are really looking for, helps to build confidence and gives step by step instructions on how to properly prepare for their interviews. For more information, please visit my website at www.dapnetworking.com  or you may email me at bhill8447@verizon.net

 


Intimate Conversation with Shelley Parsons

 Shelley Parsons is the published author of  "Quieting the Storm" and "Rosebud."  A two book series. "Quieting the Storm", is a innovative way of exploring our lives and the decisions we make that affect our paths in the present and future.

Shelley Parsons, is a mother of two beautiful children Holiday and Dartagnan and currently resides in lake Elsinore California. Not only does Shelley Parsons love to write she also enjoys reading. Shelley, invites the public to participate in creative expression by posting any short stories or poetry on her website shelleyparsons.com.

Ella:  Shelley introduce us to Quieting the Storm, your new book.

What could happen next? Readers will find themselves caught up in the twists and turns of Quiet's life. They will learn that her life is anything but quiet. A young girl from Louisiana flees to New York to escape her dysfunctional family and more. She discovers you can never break the ties which bind one to their family. Hurt, but full of hope, Quiet returns to her childhood home seeking her destined path. The storm within continues to brew, while along the way she learns of betrayal, anger, true friendship, angels and their powers from above, real family, love, self-discovery, and what she really wants from life and herself. The trials and tribulations this young woman endures will leave readers questioning their own path and personal storms.

 Ella: What legacy will your writing leave with readers?
My writing offers the following legacy to future readers because above all I try to capture the true essence of life , Human behavior. I don't sugar coat the ugly and I define how you will receive the pretty the choice is always ours. But the decisions are not easy ones to make.

 
 Ella: Who are your two main characters and what do you like most about them?
 Quiet of course is the main character in the book.. I often name my book after the characters.. Tommy is Quiets true love interest he is so exciting and refreshing.. You will want to dive right into his eyes.

  Ella: What makes your book stand out and would entice a reader pick it up?
There's one thing that often stands out in my books is the metaphysical or spiritual twist that go along with the storyline.. Readers will ask themselves is this real or is Quieting tripping?.. Lol
 
What can we expect from you in the future?
This summer you can expect a funny and charming hot and steamy love story from me called "Only Love". This book I hope will help readers understand the ties that bind two people.. When you heart goes against the brain.. And you are looking in the mirror asking yourself What am I doing? 

As you can see "Quieting the Storm" is in New edition. There is another copy of this novel with a different cover floating around.. I must say please be careful when you self publish because there are a lot of thieves out there willing to take advantage of first time writers.. But I must say, It was a great lesson learned. I now own the copyright to the new edition and thankful for the second chance. 

"Quieting the Storm was reviewed by The Midwest book reviewers.  They gave me much hope in continuing my writing career. Check out the review at Small Press Bookwatch, The fiction shelf. James A. Cox. 

I hope readers walk away from my novels.. laughing and crying and thinking and singing.. Oh yes, you will learn things as do also when readers ask me questions and tell me their perceptions about the characters.
 

Quieting the Storm (New Edition) ISBN 978-1436318945

Shelleyparsons.com   



When Your Mountain Won’t Move

The word of God says…if you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move; and nothing will be impossible to you ( Matthew 17:20b)

Life is complex at times, especially when we are in the midst of trials or facing problems and troubled situations.  Sometimes, the mountain of problems we are facing can test even the strongest of God’s children.  Now faith is assurance of things hoped for, a conviction of things not seen (Hebrew 11:1 NASB).

During tough times such as those many of us are faced with today, where does our faith stand?  Where is the mustard seed faith that can say to the mountain in our lives, be thou removed and be yea cast down into the sea, and the mountain will move out of our way?  Where are those of us who stand strong against the fierce winds of adversity?

When everywhere we look, people are losing jobs, families are splitting apart, and murder and mayhem seem to bombard the news.  Giant corporations who provided good, steady jobs with great pay and benefits are becoming scarce and corrupt.  We don’t see a positive end in sight.  As a matter of fact, it looks like things are getting worse at every time.

What do you do when your mountain won’t move?  Some of us give up.  Some of us find it even more difficult to call on the sovereign God.  Still, many more of us fester in anger, disappointment, confusion and hate.  As our children go without, as our homes go in foreclosure, and our automobiles are repossessed, and our job cutbacks are at an all time high what do we expect.  When  we lose our material possessions that we’ve worked so hard for, how can we stand and take our tiny, pitiful mustard seed faith and say “mountain get out of my way,” and expect it to move?

It can be difficult. It can seem impossible. I know from experience, and I’ve been a child of God since I was eight years old.  Now I am so much older, and I’ve seen the matchless hand of God’s saving grace and mercy work over and over and over in my life.  Still, I’m here to tell you, that even now, my faith has been put through the test.

I wish I could say that I came through with flying colors like my brother in Christ Job did, but I would be lying.  Truth be told, I recently went through a trying situation that had me reeling and spiraling out of control. I didn’t think about picking up God’s words. I barely drew his words from my heart. I lay in a fetal position on my bed literally for days and sulked, cried, sulked and cried some more, wondering why me, Lord? I didn’t want to write. I didn’t want to talk to family and friends. I didn’t want to talk to God.

Yet.

Yet, I say. God Is.  God remained faithful to me, His child.  After all, He is the one who chose me, adopted me into His kingdom, made me an heir and a joint heir, placed me as part of a royal priesthood.  He is the one who made me, he formed me and he already knows all there is to know about me, including the times such as these that I have faced lately and times before, and times to come.

God remained by my side when I didn’t feel Him by my side.  He is in my spirit, the depths of my soul.  He surrounds me with his love and His angels of protection.  He looks at my fragile, carnal body and loves me--Still.  He loved me when I didn’t think I was loveable.  He loved me when I felt doubtful of Him and His love.  He loved me, and he held me when I fought against Him, when I blamed Him for my circumstances. 

You see, my friends; God is big enough to take on our problems.  He tells us to trust in Him with all of our hearts and to lean not to our own understanding.  He tells us that He will direct our paths.  He reminded me that I am not perfect.  I will falter at times, but my belief in God will never change.

You can say to the mountain in your life.  “Move mountain. Get out of my way in the name of Jesus.  If you believe that which you say, then the mountain has no choice but to move!  I came to understand this recently as I sat in a sea of depression in the middle of my bed watching Planet Earth on the Animal Precinct channel. It told the story of a beautiful group of special cranes that had to make a gruesome, life threatening journey to the other side of the Himalayas, the highest mountains in the world, if they were to eat and drink.  Though they knew they faced death, though they knew some of their young would be killed, though they knew that some of them would not make it because of the danger that faced them as they confronted the mighty Himalayas, they yet moved forward.  They stretched their wings and allowed the wind to push them gently, yet steadily, higher and higher.  They elevated gracefully up, up higher and higher into the Himalayas.  The mountains are too tall to fly over, so the cranes had to reach enough elevation that they could rise above the storms that they would surely face trying to make it to the other side by going through the vast God majestic mountains.  There was a time they even had to turn back because of the strong, turbulence coming from the ferocious storms up in the clouds.  They were exhausted, hungry and thirsty.  They faced a major setback and had to turn back.  Yet, they did not give up. They started again and they went through the same thing, but this time, even though hawks were waiting to prey on the weaker cranes, they didn’t stop.  They moved higher up the mountain until they reached an elevation high enough that they were able to fly around the massive Himalayas all the way to the other side.  Upon reaching the other side, they were able to feed on rich, fertile food and fresh water.  They would have to make the long journey back again, but they had no time to think about what lay ahead.  They had reached their destination through perseverance.

We too, can reach the destination that God has for us.  Maybe you have lost a job recently.  Maybe you don’t know how you’re going to make ends meet.  Maybe you’re in a troubled relationship or you’re just plain worried about your future.  My friends, God is able.  God will never let us down.  We must learn how to face our mountains.  We may turn back at times, and feel like we will never see a brighter day ahead.  But we must not linger and we must not give up.  We may have to start the journey of faith again, but that’s okay because God is a God of second chances and third chances and unlimited chances.  We may falter and get weary but God says He will fight our battles for us.  We do have the power within us because of the Holy Spirit to say to our mountain, Move Mountain Get out of my way.
 

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The Word According to Shelia
is a monthly column by national multi award winning Christian fiction author, inspirational speaker and literary expert, Shelia E. Lipsey.  Contact Shelia E. Lipsey at shelialipsey@gmail.com or visit her on the web at www.shelialipsey.com; www.myspace.com/shelialipsey; http://twitter.com/shelialipsey   

Shelia is a four time author for Kensington/Urban books. Her latest soul-gripping novel, Beautiful Ugly, is now available nationwide including online.  Shelia is also a regular columnist and Literary Diva for Sankofa Literary Society, as well as a contributor to Black Pearls Magazine.

 


First Class Treatment by Karyn Beach

I was in Montana for work all last week and I flew back to Charlotte last night. It had been a long day and by early evening, the only thing separating me from home was the four hour flight from Salt Lake City to Charlotte. I sat on the aisle in the first row of seats in the Coach section.

I had a perfect view into First Class where there were two very pleasant and attentive flight attendants for the handful of VIP passengers. Those in First Class had drinks before take off and just in general seemed to be having a good time being showered with extra attention. Meanwhile, just one row and a flimsy blue drape away, I sat in Coach among the crying children and cramped seats. I watched while they had snacks in First Class, more drinks and a nice hot meal with real silver and glassware.

And I waited in Coach, with over 70 people, who were also being served by two flight attendants, for almost two hours just to get a soda and pay top dollar for a cold fried chicken sandwich. When I asked for one of the Margaritas they'd been promoting, I was told they didn't have time to make one for me.

It occurred to me as I sat there eating my sandwich that we tend to treat our loved ones as if they are riding in Coach. Like those Coach flight attendants, we are often spread too thin with too many things to do and too many people to serve. No time to do anything extra.

Please read the entire article and share with us how your give First Class Treatment.

 


The Obama Impact on Young Women

How much will the Obamas being in the White House mean to Young Women?

One of our most influential, most poised black female influences of today is Mrs. Michelle Obama. Now, with all of the "Hoopla" in today's black church about whether it is "Biblical" to call the pastor's wife the "First Lady", our First Lady Michelle Obama goes without question.

She is truly an inspiration to every woman, young and old. The older women look at her, and they just know. They know how strong one has to be to handle all of that pressure. They know the struggle of juggling household, career and children, trying to hold it all together and still squeeze in some time for self.

Women such as myself, we can see it in her eyes. The 'chin up, shoulders back, put God first, give a little but not too much' air about her that we all practice everyday. The young girls, however, in this election, really got to see family in action. Being the mother of a 10 year old girl, I found it easier to say, "Look at what you can do, if you put God first, and apply yourself." I got to tell her that it is okay to use correct diction, and you will be alright if you decide to dress appropriately.

So often our young girls find themselves too early in their lives becoming mothers, forcing themselves into adulthood. The result of this is broken homes, sometimes with no father figure- often without a good one. But the Obamas stand as proof that whatever your situation is...it doesn't have to stay that way. Our president has a strong black woman supporting him, lifting him up when he's down and softening those blows.

Selena Winston author, "Butterfly Kisses"
http://www.selenawinston.webs.com

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Black Pearls author Danette Majette

Danette Majette was born in Long Branch, New Jersey, and moved to Norfolk, Virginia when she was five. After graduating from high school and going into the U.S. Marine Corps, Danette's love for fashion led her to Nordstrom where she worked as a manager. It was there that she was advised be a friend and co-worker to write her first novel "I Shoulda Seen It Comin' which debuted in 2005. She followed this success two years later with her second novel 'Deep" which successfully made the Essence Magazine bestseller list in 2008.

Danette currently resides in Maryland with her two children, Bryan Majette and Marketa Salley.  Marketa is a featured author in 'Teenage Bluez II'. A series of urban short stories written for and by teens. Her third novel 'Good Girl Gone Bad' is set to be released in April 2009.

Ella: Danette please introduce us to your new book.
My new book "Good Girl Gone Bad" is about three married women who are all at the same time faced with financial hardships. They need money and they need it quick so they come up with a scheme that insures them a big pay day until their flawless plan goes completely up in smoke. This is a book that will feel so real to the average reader considering we’ve all had hardships at one time or another, the differences show up in how we chose to deal with the issue.

Ella:  Finish this sentence: I am Powerful because...
I am Powerful because...I have proven that you can take negative experiences in life and turn them into positive ones.

Ella: What makes your book stand out and would entice a reader pick it up?
I think my cover and the title of the book will peak the reader's curiosity and entice them to pick my book up. Society has shown us that drama sells, therefore everyone wants to know the story behind what made these good women turn bad. Believe me…it’s a crazy ride!

Ella: Ultimately, what do you want readers to gain from your book?
I’d like for my readers to walk away with a sense of compassion for another woman’s issues. So many of us like to judge, yet we don’t realize we could be the one in that situation. In addition, use Good Girl Gone Bad as a precautionary tale. These ladies found a solution to their problem…just not a legal one. Beware and most definitely…do not follow in their footsteps.

Ella: What is the most surprising thing you have learned in creating books?
I think a lot of people come into this business as I did thinking it's a piece of cake but it really isn't. From the creative aspect to the revising and marketing of the book requires dedication and perseverance. It's even difficult at times. Of course, at the end of the day it's worth it.

Ella: What would you say has been your most significant achievement as a writer?
My second book "Deep" made the Essence Magazine Best Seller List in March 2008. It was a great honor.

Ella:  What advice would you give a new writer?
Start by taking some creative writing classes. Also they should read different styles of writing from other authors then craft their own style.

Ella: Name 3 things that it takes to make a successful author, in your opinion?
Commitment, Imagination, and Motivation.

Ella: How may our fans contact you for book signings or speaking engagements?
Danette Majette
P.O. Box 471396
District Heights, MD 20753
Email: dcmajette@gmail.com
Buy Books: www.lifechangingbooks.net

 


Body By Night by Zuri Day


ISBN-10: 0758228821  |   ISBN-13: 978-0758228826
Category: CONTEMPORARY ROMANCE

Zuri Day sizzles with a seductive story of one woman’s quest to take control of her life…while experiencing an attraction too explosive to resist.

D’Andra Smalls has had enough. She’s tired of being overweight, she’s had it with her overbearing family, and she’s fed up with settling for any guy who’ll have her—especially since she caught her boyfriend cheating with her best friend.

But working out and avoiding delicious food is easy compared to resisting the charms of Los Angeles’ hottest personal trainer, JaJuan “Night” Simmons. Six feet of chiseled muscle and fine chocolate, he’s challenging her body in all the right ways—and proving there’s a sensitive, caring guy under the good looks. Their shared career goals of promoting health and fitness bring them even closer together.

But D’Andra feels it may be too much of a good thing. After succeeding in taking command of her life, can she risk losing control of her heart.     [Read More of the story here]

Behind the Books with Zuri Day


Zuri Day is a hopeful romantic. She believes in happy endings, half-full glasses and dreams coming true. That's why she's thrilled to introduce her second romance novel, which follows the success of Lies Lovers Tell, because writing and having her novels published is for Zuri a dream come true.

Zuri doesn't remember exactly how old she was when she picked up her first romance novel, but she does remember it was love at first sight. "It was probably a Harlequin," she recalled during a recent interview. "And it thankfully took me away from a fairly dull and routine existence growing up in a small Kansas town."  Things aren't dull and routine anymore. Zuri now resides in Los Angeles with her family and when she isn't writing loves to travel the world, cook vegetarian food, work out, watch sports, attend concerts and theatre and enjoy the simple things in life.

"Many people have given up on love, much less romance," Zuri says. "I'm hoping that somehow in the love-filled pages of my romance novels, they can ignite the desire to believe again. Anything is possible, when we believe..."

For more information on Zuri Day visit: http://www.zuriday.com
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Meet Author Lutishia Lovely
 
Book Spotlight:  A Preacher's Passion

Ella Curry, the CEO of Black Pearls Magazine, sits down with author Lutishia Lovely to discuss her writing career and new book. Lutishia Lovely grew up in a small, Kansas town and often escaped its sometimes boring, stagnant atmosphere by plunging into a good book, including poetry, the genre of her early writing.

 This love affair with words took an interesting turn when she responded to a small newspaper ad for people interested in radio. It contained the only three words she needed to see in order to apply-no experience necessary. Attending that first meeting led to a broadcasting certification, an FCC license and a radio career that lasted more than ten years; as a morning-drive disc jockey, award-winning Saturday morning talk show host and eventually program director. During this time she also became involved in theatre, and along with acting began writing and producing stage plays..

 These days, Lutishia is rarely far from her computer, having just finished book five of the Hallelujah Love Series. And just to keep it interesting, she sometimes dons an alter-ego, Zuri Day, and writes romance. When not working, Lutishia enjoys travel, theatre, concerts, and whipping up yummy vegetarian dishes for her family and friends. She is based out of Los Angeles, but  currently lives in Barcelona, Spain.

 Ella:  Can any one of us be truly content with only our dreams? What action steps did you take to help your dream, of being a writer, become a reality?
 Well, Ella, the first step I took was to pick up a pen and write! But those first pieces, poetry, weren't even written because I thought I wanted to be a writer, it was just what I loved to do...create. When I began to seriously entertain a writing career, I read a lot and wrote a lot, honing my craft. I joined writer groups, and looked for various ways I could get experience and exposure: news/entertainment reports (radio), newspaper articles, magazine articles, etc. By the time I wrote my first novel, Sex In The Sanctuary, I had been writing professionally off and on for almost ten years. 

 Regarding the first part of your question, I believe dreams are simply Spirit's way of showing us what's possible. If we believe, and take appropriate action, our dreams can become our reality. And believe me, the reality is better than the dream!

Ella:  There are moments in life, that will inspire the rest of your life. Tell us about the moment in life, that inspired you to become a writer for life!

 This is going to sound interesting, but losing a job I loved was the inspiration, and the best thing that could have happened! I was working as the managing editor and senior writer of a holistic magazine and I loved what I did. It was a small but vibrant publication and being involved in it was very rewarding. Unfortunately, the owner ran into problems and the company folded. I panicked, and began sending out resumes for not only writing jobs, but other areas where I thought I'd find work faster: sales, marketing, administrative, PR. Girl, I started sending out those resumes and almost got sick to my stomach! The thought of going back into a regular 9-5--all due respect to 9-5ers--but that thought didn't make me feel good at all. I'd gotten spoiled with waking up every day and loving what I did.

One day, something happened, something snapped in my spirit. While sitting at my computer, I declared out loud, "I am a writer!". At that exact moment, I decided to put all of my energies into my dream, and let the chips fall where they may. From that day on, I sent out only writing resumes, and watched my meager savings dry up, the bills pile up, my fear creep up, but my faith leap up! Whenever I faltered, I'd remind myself of who I was and whose I was...a writer, and God's beloved daughter. All things are possible, Spirit would whisper. And I believed, Ella! Several weeks later, I got my first ghostwriting client. That project fed me, led to other ghostwriting opportunities and lasted almost a year. I got my first publishing contract a year later.

Ella:  We are who we are, our actions define who we really are. Our actions create our brand! What are some of the actions you have taken, in life or  in your writing, that will create an impact on your readers?
I have dared to be me: non-traditional, thinking outside the box, coloring outside the lines, breaking away from familial conditioning and living my truth.

 When the stories for my series first came to me, I censored the voices as I wrote. The plots were complex, sometimes inspirational, sometimes erotic...sex and scripture often coming within pages of each other! Having grown up in church I knew this would be controversial, but I also knew these voices were reflective of an aspect of "churchanity", they reflected the reality of some people's lives, and dealt with topics that few in the religious community openly discuss. I believe these voices, these stories came through me because I was unconstrained enough to write them.

 There is a scripture that says "he whom the Son sets free, is free indeed". I think my readers are impacted by the fact that I'm free! 

   Ella:  In your new book,  A Preacher's Passion, what is the overall message you hope to relay to your readers. Why was it so important to bring out this message?
I think there are many messages within the pages of my series but I think an overall message is this: God's love is unconditional, and trumps man's judgment and/or condemnation. Love is larger than we can imagine, and truth is paramount.

 Ella:  What is the best way for readers and the media to contact you for event invitations or to share reviews?
 The best way is through my website: www.LutishiaLovely.com, although I am also on Twitter, MySpace, Facebook, LinkedIn, and a plethora of Yahoo and Ning groups.

A Preacher's Passion--Available Now!
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To Push Through, You've Got to Look Back
by Alicia Williams

Yesterday, I spent most of the morning and early afternoon sitting in the office of the EEOC (Equal Employment Opportunity Commission). I filed a complaint against my employer, a major bank, on the basis of retaliation for me going to HR. The situation is so messy, but I find myself fighting for my dignity.

I do not want to go into the new year with old stuff and baggage. I want to go with the expectations of wonderful opportunities, freshness and new beginnings. Goodness, I truly hope this mess doesn't set the precedent of 2009 for me, otherwise I would have to take a seat and wait for 2010.

Hold up! Is that defeat and fear talking? No, I am just tired of fighting battles. (I say that as I have been watching several documentaries on the Civil Rights Movement, don't I have a lot of nerve to even think of the word "tired"?)

You know what? Things aren't actually that bad for me, as compare my situation to others. A friend of mine invested everything she had, and then some, in her dreams to get her pilot show on the air. Oh yeah, networks loved it, but none bought it and now she is broke and starting all over. Another friend, who is a single mom, is losing her home to foreclosure because the landlord wasn't paying the rent. And, countless of people we know are pushing through horrible situations such as losing their jobs, foreclosures, the economy, etc. (and an extra etc.)

Hmmmm...my little fight with the big bank is not that bad, eh? And, you know what? I truly have a lot to be thankful for. I have my health, I was dealing with depression and anxiety and it actually felt like I was losing my mind, but guess what? Baby, I'm back! My daughter is fine, I've been protected and kept safe from all hurt, harm and danger. Chile, I am doing just fine...just fine.

So, 2009, here I come...no, 2009, here WE come! Because guess what? WE are all in this together. And, to be sure that we are on the same page, let's gets some basics down for the new year.

1. Do you want some cheese to go with that whine? No? Then stop whining and complaining! It could be worse and for some folks it is. Take the moment to cry, if needed. Talk about it with a friend, get advice. But, stop the whining and complaining. No need to regurgitate the story over and over about who did you wrong and what happened. Get over it and get moving! We have a whole lot of work to do and 2009 is almost over (well, it'll feel like it soon). Use the hurt to fuel your purpose. Obama didn't sit down and cry over all the attacks, he kept it moving...so did the Civil Rights Workers when their houses were burned, the dogs and hoses were turned on them...no rest or whining for the weary, I know.
 

2. Count your blessings! You have heard this 100 times, but here it is for the 101th time. We ignore so many small blessings, that is shameful. How many stories have you heard about people being robbed, houses being broken into or car accidents on the road you travel? Hey, it wasn't you! That is a blessing, so count it! Health, eyesight, feet to stand on, hot water working, heat pumping...count all of that and keep counting. After all, when we cease to count our blessings we become ungrateful. When something doesn't go our way, we get bitter and angry because we haven't counted all of the other things that have worked out for us.
 

3. Stop talking about it, be about it! I don't want to hear another "I wanna" in 2009 because I heard enough in 2008, and nothing got done, but talking! (Am I preaching to the choir, or what?) Anyway, it is time to put your wheels in motion, stop the yapping and follow through on a goal. I learned that I couldn't keep asking God to bless me with opportunities when I never finished them. I finally finished my book, Up From Rock Bottom, and the thought that I completed it was so incredible. So, as God told me, "finish the thing that you set out to do and see it through to completion."


Now, if I have to carry some old stuff from 2008, then that's fine. I'll just apply these three steps above and keep it moving. And, I also realize like the line in A Color Purple, "I had to fight all my life..." So, that's nothing new to me, I'll keep my boxing gloves nearby and stand on the shoulders of my ancestors who had to fight so that I can stand (and fight sometimes, too.) Hey, what does all of this deep stuff mean? It means that life will keep coming at you, don't get weary and start to doubt and fear. Get stronger, look back over your life and see all of the trials that you've survived. Look back over the lives of our people and realize that surviving and pushing through is in you...its in the DNA, baby! Use it for inspiration because I know 2008 will follow us into 2009!

Hey, look at President Barack Obama, 2006 through 2008 will be following him into 2010 and he's not whining, complaining or giving up! Now, things don't look so bad, do they?


Alicia Williams, Author of Up From Rock Bottom

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Alicia Williams
is a gifted actress, writer and motivational speaker. The Detroit native received a Bachelor’s of Art Degree in African-American Studies from the University of Kentucky. Alicia immersed herself in college life by joining the Delta Sigma Theta sorority, working as a radio disc jockey and forming Circle of Imani, a collegiate woman’s support group. Using the support group as a platform, Alicia facilitated workshops, retreats and performances for the Charles Young Community Center, which addressed concerns involving self-esteem, abstinence and family issues. Read more about Alicia here.
 

Not Straying From Your First Intentions
by Michele Cameron

November 4, 2008 history was made as Barack Obama the first African American was elected as president of the United States. I felt a sense of euphoria as I watched citizens of all races throughout the world celebrated this momentous occasion. A renewed spirit filled of hope consumed me as I watched tears of hopefulness cascade down the cheeks of young and old in New York City and Chicago’s Grant Park.

The last couple of years have been rough. I’m a public high school English teacher and I view with gravity the budget cuts that have affected the school system. For the first time in eighteen years, teachers in my county didn’t get a pay increase. I’m also greatly concerned about the obvious change in finances for my students.

I’ve seen more students relying on school lunch than ever before and the number of families asking for funds that we have set aside to help needy families has more than tripled. Teenagers can’t get jobs in fast food restaurants because retirees have been forced back in the workforce. I see the difference in my students’ appearance and lack of supplies, that they need in order to get an education. It was high time for a change.

I’m smart enough to know that this won’t happen overnight. President elect Obama is not a miracle man, but if he can keep my parents who are retired from losing their social security benefits and help decrease the monthly amount of money that they have to pay for health care because my father is a diabetic, then he’s all right with me. As I listened to my future president give his acceptance speech, one thing really struck me. From the time he was old enough to start thinking about his future, he knew that he wanted to make a difference. I take my hat off to him because he’s already done that. More people voted in this past election than ever before. I’ve never seen so many enthusiastic people welcome the changing of the guard in the political arena, and people are in turn paying more attention to things that matter, their country The United States of America.

I write romance novels.
I could never dare suggest that what I do has or will ever have the impact on people that Barack Obama has, but I can still help in my own little way. I can help someone who may be grappling with some internal pain or feel as if it is them against the world and no one understands what they are going through. My books can offer solace. As I watched this hopeful man, I thought about my own goals. Lately, I’ve been thinking that I need to write a different type of novel. Contemporary romance sells, but if you really want to make the big bucks, erotica is the way to go and I had begun to think that maybe I should go that route. Barack Obama changed my mind.

In every novel that I write, social issues that affect the main characters are weaved throughout the plot. In Never Say Never, released January 2, 2008 the heroine Desiree Diamond had been in a long term relationship with a man who was taking her for granted. After being forced out of this relationship when she realized that he had no intention of marrying her, she was thrown together working on a sexual harassment lawsuit with Tyler Montgomery, an attorney at her law firm. Desiree succumbed to his charm, but she kept their relationship hidden from family and friends and almost lost the true love of her life. Never Say Never deals with interracial relationships and sexual harassment in the workplace. It also touches on how people need to be true to themselves in the pursuit of happiness.

My second novel Moments of Clarity… released October 7, 2008 is a sequel to the Diamond family from Never say Never. The heroine, Sasha Diamond is a registered nurse in New York City. She is content to stand by her man Abdul, until she finds out that he doesn’t deserve her love. By chance, she has an encounter with Sexton Johnson an NBA basketball player for the Knicks. Sexton is a product of the foster care and adoption system. He yearns for the loving relationship that was modeled to him by his adoptive parents and feels that he can have that with Sasha. Sasha realizes early in their relationship that he is the one, but is torn between splitting her time with a needy friend, and being supportive to her man. In Moments of Clarity… the social issues being explored are the down low man, destructive relationships, the health care system in America, and how to rise from horrible circumstances in order to be a model and mentor for others.

My third novel When Lightning Strikes will be released through Genesis-Press, Inc. August 2009. The main characters, Grace Foxfire and Jethro Newman were raised in Lake City South Carolina as brother and sister. Tragedy strikes and it deeply affects them as they try to deal with the loss of a loved one. The social issues in When Lightning Strikes touch on the subject of how African Americans need to take back their community to help it prosper. It also demonstrates how one needs to come to terms with death, and prescriptive drug use through family counseling.

My fourth novel Unclear and Present Danger’s heroine is Solange Montgomery who was introduced to readers in When Lightning Strikes. The hero in the novel is an Arab American policeman Ali Marks. Prejudice and ill conceived notions is the theme of the novel. I explore what a citizen of the country is and how the climate for Muslims has changed for the worse since we engaged in war with Iraq. Also, the effects downsizing is having on the workplace because of our looming recession.

I am deeply indebted to President Barack Obama because he made me do some critical thinking about the effect words can have on a nation. He set a course and didn’t stray from it not matter what anyone else said or did, and in the end he was triumphant. He is the right person at the right time to remind me of why I wanted to be an author in the first place and how not to let myself be sidetracked and become too competitive with others in my field. I’m happy and proud of all published authors, but now I am also more accepting of my place in the literary world.

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Michele Cameron, a native of Bridgeport Connecticut is a graduate of the Danbury High School Connecticut school system. Cameron is a graduate of North Carolina A & T State University in Greensboro with a B.S. degree in professional writing and English Education. Cameron’s first novel, given a 4 star rating Never Say Never was published in January, 2008 and earned her the prestigious title as being named New Face among African-American writers for the month of January by Romanceincolor.


Make The Dream Happen
by Pamela Samuels Young

Do you ever fantasize about leaving your current career behind and pursuing something totally different? Perhaps you've thought seriously about it for a day or a week, but then the fear of leaving the virtual security of your current job floods your head with dozens of sound reasons why you should stay put.

Whether your dream is to write a novel, start your own business or go back to school, you can make it happen. Here are five tips that will help you begin your journey.

1. Find Time To Plan Your Career Move

With the demands of work, family, church and community activities, you may feel you don't have a spare moment to even think about, much less pursue, your dream career. You're wrong. It may not be easy, but you can find free time where you least expect it. The next time you're taking a neighborhood jog or walking on the treadmill, use the time to mull over the plot for that book you've been wanting to write or to think about possible locations for the day spa you've dreamed of opening. Instead of listening to your favorite CD during your morning and evening commute, use the time to work on the business plan for your catering business. Even if it's only an hour a week, use it.

2. Don't Reinvent The Wheel
You may not realize it, but you have a multitude of resources all around you – family, friends, colleagues, church members, sorority sisters, and even strangers. Don't be afraid to request an informational interview. People love to talk about themselves and many will be flattered to have someone asking them for advice. The Internet is also an invaluable resource.

3. Join Professional Organizations
It's a good idea to surround yourself with others who share your interests and passion. There are dozens of professional groups whose sole function is to help their members develop their creative talents and realize their business goals. Find the organizations that can be most helpful to you and join them.

4. Understand That It Won't Happen Overnight
Achieving your goal will take time. I recently read an article in Writer's Digest about a writer who received more than 400 rejection letters before getting his first book deal. Now that's what you call perseverance! There will no doubt be disappointments when things don't happen in accordance with your time schedule. But if you remain faithful and focused on your goal, it will happen.

5. Ignore The Naysayers
We all know people who believe you should find a good job, work as hard as you can for 30 years, then retire and enjoy life. For them, the thought of leaving a secure, well-paying position for the uncertainties of entrepreneurial life is unthinkable. That kind of limited thinking won't help you realize your dream. You have decide what you want to do and go for it. And don't be surprised if you turn out to be your biggest obstacle. When that happens, just look your self-doubt squarely in the face and command it to go away.

So don't just dream your dream, make it happen!

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Attorney Pamela Samuels Young is the author of the legal thrillers Murder on the Down Low, In Firm Pursuit and Every Reasonable Doubt. Visit her website at http://www.pamelasamuelsyoung.com.


Did you know that it is NOT GOD'S WILL that you
be physically, sexually, or emotionally abused?

 
Award Winning Author Cheryl Lacey Donovan Speaks out about Faith Communities about Domestic Violence

In Texas alone, statistics indicated in 2005 that there were 30,995 reported incidents of domestic violence? Just imagine the "silent" unreported incidents who are living in silent fear! Each year, an estimated 3.3 million children are exposed to violence by family members against their mothers or female caretakers.

In a national survey of more than 2,000 American families, approximately 50% of the men who frequently assaulted their wives also frequently abused their children! Of children who witness their mothers being abused by their fathers, 40% suffer anxiety, 48% suffer depression, 53% act out with their parents and 60% act out with siblings.

Statistics further indicate that victims of domestic violence are everywhere, even in your faith community. Seventy-four percent of all Texans have either been a victim of domestic violence or know someone who has (according to a quantitative study conducted for Texas Council on Family Violence, Saurage, 2002.)

Because there is a need for outreach and education in faith communities, the faith family can be a critical resource for spiritual renewal and guidance. Texas Council on Family Violence. The problem is communities of faith can inadvertently make the situation worse. Misguided attempts at counseling can, in some cases, endanger rather than help the victim. In addition, religious values may pressure the victim to keep the family together at all costs.

Some batterers may even use scriptures and faith as a way to control their partner. "I grew up in a ministerial family. My parents were divorced when I was very young, but the religious impact was always there. Therefore, when I was initially thrust into an abusive situation, I found it difficult to come to a conclusion about my future because I didn't want to do anything that would be seen as contradictory to God's teachings on marriage," said Donovan. "Dissolving the marital relationship was one of the hardest things I had ever done because I wanted to be right in God's sight.

Yet, there were no programs within the church setting to provide guidance in this respect." The bottom line is, love should never hurt. Domestic violence is never acceptable. It goes contrary to any religious teachings. Expecting a victim of domestic violence to simply pray about a situation and expect it to go away is ludicrous. Encouraging a victim to keep the family together because it is what God would want is not scriptural or moral. Communities of faith need to open their eyes and understand the important role that they play in the fight against domestic violence. Training programs and outreach can assist congregants who may be experiencing physical or psychological abuse.

Information regarding training and outreach programs can be obtained from the Texas Council on Family violence http://www.tcfv.org.
 
 
 

Cheryl Donovan is the award winning author of Women What the Hell are You Thinking and the soon to be released Ministry of Motherhood. She is also the host of the inspirational radio show Worth More than Rubies which airs on blogtalkradio.com.  To contact Cheryl to speak about domestic violence issues as they relate to communities of faith, or to learn more about other potential topics, e-mail her at cherylspeaks@gmail.com. You may also visit her website at:  www.cheryllaceydonovan.com.
 

Abuse in Teen Relationships: Is your teen crying silently?

The issue of teen abuse is not one that immediately pops into mind for most of us when we discuss domestic violence. Until November 2006, I was one who might have believed that it didn't exist, at least not in my world.

The morning I received a phone call informing me that my younger cousin, who was seventeen at the time, had been raped by her ex-boyfriend, is one that I'll never forget. 2006 had already claimed the life of my maternal grandmother, and I didn't want to imagine that things could get any worse in our family. But low and behold, we had yet another travesty to deal with, leaning on the arms of God's mercy and love for strength that only He could deliver.

My heart broke into a million pieces when I saw my cousin. I thanked God that she was alive and not seriously bruised externally, but the fear and pain I saw in her eyes nearly stopped the rhythmic beating of my heart as it filled with just a portion of what she was feeling. I didn't know her pain personally but knowing and loving her is what caused my eyes to fill with tears.

I sat with her at the hospital waiting for them to call her back to do the rape kit. I listened to the question and answer session between her and the detective. Every answer angered me as my heart continued to break and my blood boiled. I wanted to find the aggressor before the police did. Not only had he raped her at knife-point but he took off with their one-year old son and was nowhere to be found.

Over and over I asked myself, when did teens start having these type issues? Shouldn't she be at school taking a test and preparing for her graduation? Why are we here at the hospital? And the most nagging question of all was why-why didn't she come to us the first time he hit her? Why did she allow the abuse to continue only to have him rape her when she finally got out of the relationship?

Parents, I urge you to talk to your sons and daughters because domestic violence in teen relationships is real. For my cousin, it started with verbal abuse. He belittled her and broke down her self-esteem. He made her feel sorry for him, filling her head and heart with lies that he could not endure life without her. She felt obliged to be there for him for fear he'd kill himself otherwise and that was guilt she didn't want to face.

The verbal abuse soon escalated to physical abuse and more threats to harm himself if she left. When she finally found the courage to leave, a decision that was clearly in the best interest of her son and herself, he didn't kill himself; he instead lashed out at her, taking from her something that a woman should only willingly give to a man.

My cousin is now in college. She is a single parent who works part-time, and even though she doesn't talk much about her experience, I know that it still weighs heavily on her mind. I also know that by the grace of God, this too shall pass. I have a website set up for my cousin where copies of Somebody Prayed for Me, which features her story "Silent Cries", will be sold. All profit from sales go to my cousin, towards her education and her son. The website address is http://www.shakestawest.webs.com.

Authored by Linda R. Herman
http://www.lindarherman.com

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In Pursuit of Perfection: Searching for the Body Beautiful
By Jacqueline Moore

For you created my innermost being, you knit me together in my
mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made, your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalm 139: 13-14

For centuries, women have been competing with the unrealistic portrayal of beauty as depicted by Hollywood and in the print media. The need to be thinner, younger and in some cases, plumped up in certain areas; has escalated to epidemic proportions.

African-American women have been taught that the darkness of their skin, the fullness of their lips, and the thickness of their waist, are the things that make them unattractive. Their nappy hair is a sign of un-cleanliness and their big noses are a sure sign that they must have descended from apes.

Our Caucasian sisters are also confronted with faulty conditioning by society. They are told to seek a darker complexions, hence the popularity of the "tan body." They run the risk of skin cancers by tanning in the tanning salons and baking their white flesh in the sun. If their lips are not full enough, then they are supposed to have collagen added for fullness. If their hair is curly, they need to straighten it. If their hair is straight, they need perms to make it curly. No matter what their hair color, they are told that blondes have more fun.

In recent years, the desire to become more like the Hollywood caricature has escalated to behavior that is putting our very lives at risk. Eating disorders and plastic surgery, issues that until a few years ago were unheard of, have now spiraled out of control. Bulimia and Anorexia were once words that did not exist in the minds and lives of young women, but now they are as widespread today in our schools as the common cold.

Women of all races are dying everyday from their attempts to become more beautiful.


Gastric bypass surgery, breast augmentation, nose jobs, cheek, and chin implants are becoming commonplace as a means to reshape and redefine who we are. Young girls are starving themselves to death, just to fit it. Hollywood’s image of the beautiful and desirable woman has tainted our perceptions of the acceptable standards of beauty.

Even successful women, who appear to have achieved greatness through their work, are succumbing to the pressures of being in the public eye. Starr Jones and Cher are but two well-known celebrities who have undergone dramatic procedures to improve their looks, while Oprah, Kirstie Alley and Janet Jackson are criticized for gaining even the slightest bit of weight.

We are born into this world, with no preconceived notions about how a person should look. As children, we don’t know to judge others based on their skin color, hair length, how tall or how short they are. We don’t instinctively look at another child and say, she looks different to me. The tendency to judge is not a natural part of our makeup; we teach our children these things. At some point during our childhood, we start judging others by standards we have been taught. We start tearing down one another’s self-esteem. We create doubt in the minds of others on their worthiness. We start going along with the crowd. We start thinking like the crowd instead of thinking for ourselves.

I am not trying to imply there is anything wrong with us making cosmetic changes so that we look better or feel healthier. I have acrylic nails, I wear make-up, and I have had dental work done. However, I did these things to help me feel better about myself, not to be accepted by others. While doing research on this topic, I came across a very interesting passage written by Wade Hodges.

In speaking on the Virtuous Women in one of his sermons, he quoted another passage of scripture from the book of Proverbs. It was from the book of Proverbs, Chapter 11; verse 22. He used the NIV interpretation, which really drove the point home. Proverbs 11; 22 says, like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion. His interpretation stated, don’t get so enamored with the golden ring that you fail to see that it’s stuck in a pigs nose.” In other words, don’t let the beauty fool you. Beauty is fleeting, charm is deceitful, don’t be led astray by such things. Self-acceptance is the real beauty secret.

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Jacqueline (Jackie) Moore is a Christian writer of non-fiction and fiction. She is currently working on publishing her first fiction book Serving Justice and has written a non­fiction book on "Virtuous Women" from which she has developed a workshop/seminar.

Jackie is currently pursuing her undergraduate degree in religion at Liberty University and offers spiritual words of encouragement daily on her website www.virtuousliving.com. She and her two sons, James and Joseph reside in Detroit, Michigan.


   

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